when i am around my friends i am always my self, but then i feel like some times i need to change. i feel i am very jokey and silly but some of my friends arnt like that and they are liked more, and by more people.
also,when i am around boys i am also myself but i thinkits that which puts them off - my friends always have people likeing them and they are really different to me! help what can i do!?
thanks!
2007-03-22 06:37:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Here is a good quote I like " I would rather be hated for who I am, then loved who who I am not"
2007-03-22 08:16:28 · answer #1 · answered by Amber H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand completely. Everyone goes through this. When people act different from "themselves", it doesnt mean that they aren't themselves. They are still the same person of course! Everyone has different moods and ways of acting each day. That just makes you..you. I dont think you have to act 'extra girly' around guys, dont act like anything other than how you feel at that moment. Take it day by day, everyone is a new person each day! I act like I'm gonna have a good time no matter who's gonna try and **** it up. My boyfriend always calls me a weirdo and an oddball and all that sort of stuff...but I know he likes it lol. Just dont care! Have confidence and read the quote down there that i wrote ;)
2007-03-22 14:18:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it does good but takes time. U need compatibility not a pass time.Dont get disheartened just wath people ,their action. U r learning.Dont forget u hve a inner power/everyone has a talent but proper atmosphere is required. instead changing yrself ,let people fallow u. it happens n people come back to u ,Dont worry my friend, tell me more about u. can u send me ur email Id.
2007-03-22 13:49:13 · answer #3 · answered by raashi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stay true to yourself. Be yourself. But there is also room for personnel growth. Maybe you could try being friendlier. Or maybe you need to find people who have the same interests you do. If people can't accept you for who you are then are they really worth your time? Maybe they act that way because they don't know you. Be patient. Not only with them, but yourself.
2007-03-22 13:48:18 · answer #4 · answered by jesus_lover1962 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ever change for anyone love. be yourself. hang out with different people. Jokes are fun life is easier when there is something to laugh at. Your friends are lame kid. I personally only know funny people, maybe your hanign out with the wrong crowd.
But with the dating thing, being funny isn't so easy, it kind of puts your right into the friend zone, gotta be extra girly when it comes to guys
2007-03-22 13:45:20 · answer #5 · answered by Youll See 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
keep being yourself i like you already cause your doing something alot of people do not do if people do not like you for you then f them I'm attractive corky clumsy very smart perverted and alittle air headis sometimes, kind and grateful and i will not change my accent my hair or the way i dress for no one and im glad that you are being you
2007-03-22 13:44:15 · answer #6 · answered by dianashay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
continue to be yourself dont give up yourself! and the boys who do like you are nervous towards you so stay strong!!
2007-03-22 13:51:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋