How well do a Cancer and Libra mesh?

Question

i know nothing about this whole astrology zodiac signs stuff. But i think i've found the man i want to marry. i want to know what our signs say about how well we will go together!!

Answer 1

You are More than a Sun Sign
The relative positions of all the bodies in our Solar System to each other and their positions within the 12 Zodiac Signs, flavour your basic character that is initially set by the Ruling Planet.
An Astrologer draws your individual Birth Chart, by placing at the exact position in the Zodiac, at the time of your birth - the Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, Mars, Jupiter, Saturn, Uranus, Neptune & Pluto. Some Astrologers will also take into account a variety of Asteroids.

I can not overemphasize how this combination of influences, positions and inter-relationships, shift what a professional Astrologer considers not only for your Character at time of birth but how the chart of past, present & future moments influence your behaviour and reactions to circumstance, what the public think is predicting the future. This is in fact more like forecasting the weather but does have the advantage of totally predictable planetry positions.

Your 'Stars' or Sun Sign column as popular in magazines and web sites, use ONLY the Suns basic position in the Zodiac, it can be uncannily close at times but is only the first of many considerations when it comes to understanding you, your motives, how you react in different situations and of great importance to you - how the predictable positions of planets will influence your future. The interpretation of that comes down to the technical skills and intuitive abilities of the Astrologer.

IN GENERAL

Cancer and Libra

When Cancer and Libra come together they each supply what the other is lacking. Both Signs are looking for security in partnership, and they share an appreciation for beauty and luxury, particularly in their domestic environment. The two can work together harmoniously if both are trying to achieve the same goals. The relationship may start slowly, and at first the pair may seem to have little in common, but the more they get to know each other, the better each person will recognize and respect positive qualities in the other.

Cancer and Libra both appreciate emotional and intellectual resources, and they often enjoy a teary opera or a sentimental antique. Emotion and pleasure are important to both Signs, and they complement each other in many ways. Cancer appreciates Libra's charm and diplomacy, and Libra can tame the wild shrew of unbridled emotional pouting which rears its ugly head if Cancer doesn't get their way. Libra appreciates the Cancerian love of nurturing a comfortable home and the security that comes with it. Additionally, Libra can help Cancer see the different sides of a situation, rather than making a decision without knowing all the facts. Conversely, Cancer can help Libra cure their notorious indecision.

Cancer is ruled by The Moon and Libra by the Planet Venus. These partners share a love of home, hearth, family and romance. Libra, especially, is about balance, and both partners share nurturing personalities and a desire for harmony. Together they are able to bring warmth and stability to other people unlike any other couple. Librans can be snobbish and Cancer may get their feathers ruffled easily. Cancer is based on emotion, and Libra based on intellect.

Cancer is a Water Sign and Libra is an Air Sign. Libra moves through life with pure mental exploration, while Cancer is more kinesthetic. Cancer is happiest when their emotional needs are met while Libra simply focus on what interests them from an intellectual standpoint. At times these partners may find it difficult to understand each other. Conflicts can arise in this relationship if Cancer seems too crabby or Libra seems too provocative. Both partners need to learn that they view the world in different ways.

Cancer and Libra are both Cardinal Signs. In this relationship, both partners will constantly struggle to be at the steering wheel. Libra's indecision may irritate Cancer. But Libra is skilled at seeing all sides of a problem, so is often able to accept Cancer's decision as long as Cancer avoids getting Crabby. Both are initiators which can, at times, be a struggle when their ideas and approach differ.

The best aspect of the Cancer-Libra relationship is their mutual appreciation of stability and domestic balance. Aesthetics are important and they share a love of the comforts in life. Their similar tastes and loves makes theirs a relationship of great dedication and harmony.

Answer 2

I agree that people who don't believe in astrology should stop posting their opinions on how stupid they think it is. Why do you even come here?

Anyway, I think that if you love the good and can accept the bad about one another, then you'll be fine. As far as astrology tells us by simply looking at our sun signs is that Cancer and Libra don't really mesh. Our personalities are so much more than just our sun signs. It really depends on how other elements in your charts effect your sun sign . I think that if two people really love and care for one another, they'll find a way to tolerate each other's differences.

Answer 3

off topic a sec...I seriously wish people wouldnt answer questions on astrology if they dont believe in it...

anyway it all really depends on other factors in both of your charts. it could be rising or moon signs that work rather than your sun signs. I dont want to sway your thoughts but from personal experience with a cancer male(im a libra), I have very low tolerance for them. But every cancer's emotions are different but I find them to be good natured and warm.

I do have to partially agree with one of the answerers so a fact you said you want to marry...if you're at a point that you can make that big decision in your life, then i dont think looking to astrology for further answering is nessessary unless there's something else to this you havent said.

Answer 4

Libra and Cancer

Libra and Cancer are Cardinal Signs, strong and constituted to lead. When cardinal signs meet, there is always a clash of wills, so the goals you set must be worth the compromise. At first, Scales and Crab seem in harmony. You're both sensitive and romantic, so the natural rhythms of your encounter have great appeal.

Cancer the Crab, a Water Sign, lets things happen in their own sweet time. This suits your natural inclination to weigh up all the options, so it's a good thing neither of you is inclined to rush. Moon-ruled Cancer will happily soak up all of your lyrical attention and in return will offer you the warm glow of emotional security. In the bedroom intense passions rise, but it won't be long before each of you begins searching for lines of control. Charming Libra loves to lead the way, but then encounters the immovable Crab, entrenched in secure and familiar patterns. If the battle becomes a discussion about who does what and when, your need to discuss and ask questions may clash with your Crab's need for privacy. Don't charge in wanting to know what's up if the Crab is not ready to talk.

Your changing cycle of attention and interest can clash with the Crab's mood cycle. As your need for attention and feedback grows, so may the Crab become crabby! Cancer too needs emotional reassurance, but is often too proud to ask. Monitor your partner's moods to maintain harmony, for Cancer does not want to be drawn or even noticed when in a cycle of withdrawal. Often the Crab will sleep away stresses, where you're inclined to talk them out.

You are both idealists, so can find common ground in social values, if you sort out your priorities. As an Air Sign, liberal Libra seeks balance and justice, giving focus to the partner, but conservative Cancer is the protector of home, family and the values that uphold them. You will fight for a cause, but your Crab will act to protect its own. If the greater ideal puts the personal at risk, you could feel the Crab's nipper.

You love harmony in the home, so you're well matched there, and you both flourish with romantic attention and niceties. But your keen sense of style inclines to extravagance, where the cautious Crab's claws will hold onto money. You adore the social scene, but the Crab is happiest at home. Negotiate financial matters with sensitivity and care. This relationship works best if work or family interests bind you together. Without such interests, provided by compatible Moon and other chart factors, the battle may not seem worthwhile.

Answer 5

I'm a cancer and my husband is a libra..we've been together for 10 years, married for 8. it's a perfect match!

Answer 6

I don't know if you can really judge off of that. I'm technically a virgo and my guy is a scorpio but we've been together for 10 months and it's long distance and we're fine. If it helps, my personality doesn't match virgo's.

Answer 7

baby if you and that man get along good i guess you need not to ask how well do you mesh

Answer 8

Forget about signs and all that b.s. You need to follow your heart. If you truly love him and he loves you, then a persons sign, age, race, and all that other "stuff"won't matter. He need to love you as much as you love him. And if you have kids, he needs to be the kind of person you want them to grow up to be!

Answer 9

Astrology is for fools. And has no baring on reality.