Your sister will obviously need as much support as she can get. Maybe speak to your parents about your granddad? Also make sure you speak to somebody you trust e.g. somebody in family, fav teacher, etc about your problems aswell. Because if you don't, things will build up & it won't do you any good. Let us know how you get on :)
2007-03-22 09:01:51
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answered by hcolson2000 2
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Tell your grandfather he should be ashamed of himself for mistreating his grandaughter when down and most in need of his help. Ask him if he would like being kicked about when he was on the floor.
She is a teenager and a beginner, beginners mess up.
Maybe if he had done his job properly with all his years experience, insisted said daughter was on a depro injection, handed condoms and the parents had morning after pills in the house. And she was well educated in things like you can get pregnant from sperm coated fingers.
She would not have gotton pregnant.
She is not a bad person, sex is affection.
She has not hurt, he is as are the rest of the family.
The moment they quote morality or relgion throw had how their relgion abuses kids or was involved in stonign or witch burnign and torutre.
And Ill bet you grand daddy had sex with his fair share of 16 year olds when he was young
2007-03-22 07:57:57
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answered by Anonymous
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If you act as go=between it may help, but perhaps they should talk it through together, as its all down to attitude and upbringing.How do your parents feel about this ? Is your sister a mature person ? In the end it is her place to decide on a course of action.I think your grandfather will come round and will be very proud of his Grandchild he just needs time to adjust.
2007-03-22 06:17:00
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answered by Lindsay Jane 6
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Your sister probably knows the problem, your grandfather hopefully will eventually accept it as life. It is not your problem you should not get involved. Even though it may be hard to ignore the family issue, if you have your own problems they take priority.
2007-03-22 05:23:48
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answered by Tammy T 2
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Why cant your grandpa stay in the same room as your sister? Do they just not get along? You could try talking to both of them and encourage them to end the feud so the baby gets the opportunity to know his great-grandpa. Also, encourage your sister to attend all her pre-natal appointments and to adopt healthy habits for the babys sake (ie, not smoking, not drinking, eating right). Things will get better.
2007-03-22 05:23:13
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answered by Amanda 7
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Tell your grandad to stop being a tit. Your sister need support not being made to feel bad based on the morals of a bygone age
2007-03-22 05:21:37
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answered by Barry Von Leotard III 3
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Help your family stay together. Are your problems as big as your sisters?
2007-03-22 05:22:54
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answered by Anonymous
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Try to help them both talk to your grandfather if he will and try to help him understand your sister.Give your sister lots of support to one day you may need them both.
2007-03-22 05:43:00
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answered by Anonymous
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