the bottom line is --ls it right to fall in love with him or maybe get to the extent of marrying him
2007-03-22 05:05:18 · 49 answers · asked by anslem a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
why would you want to marry someone in prison.? he is there right? if not how come? was it an accident? if so and you love him then its ok. i would feel awkward but that is just me. but if it was an accident he has a right to be loved too.
2007-03-22 05:09:03 · answer #1 · answered by jezbnme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont even think about it. How can a person marry a girl after killing her mother? He shud b put behind the bars ASAP. Never trust a person who kills his fellow beings. First of all, he's gone against the Law of Nature by killing a livin creature i.e. somebody's mother n secondly, such a person can never fall in luv for good reasons. He will always have his selfish intentions on priority even after marriage. And who knows? Mayb he'll kill his wife one day for whatever reasons. A person can envy others, however, he has no rite to kill people. Killing is an offence and it will always b. Never marry a killer, he can never b a peacemaker or a luver. If this is ur case (I don expect it to be, but) b careful, think a thousand times n its u who has 2 take a proper decision coz its ur life. I hope Christ helps u 2 choose the right path. If u luved ur mother truly, u will never do this. ALL THE BEST, my frnd.
2007-03-22 05:18:55 · answer #2 · answered by Halle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not knowing any of the circumstances, NO. Even if there was a good reason for a man to kill your mother, marring him would be weird, a little disgusting, morally wrong, and socially unacceptable. On the other hand you can't control who you love, but if he could kill your mother then he could kill you too. Once you've crossed that line no matter what the circumstances are it gets easier (on your conscience) every time.
2007-03-22 05:16:54 · answer #3 · answered by Shadow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you so bad!! No one, especially a mother, should never ever tear down someone like that. I read this book once, I think it was called "Dont Hurt Kelly", It was about this girl who was around 12, and had two siblings that were younger. Now, their father had left when she was round 6 or so. Before he left her mother was sweet and caring and she had great memories. After he left, out of nowhere, her mother started abusing her. One time in the book she burnt her daughter with a curling iron, another time she beat her and locked her in the closet. Just horrible things like that. It was found out in the end of the book that because her daughter looked like her father, and her father left, she was a reminded of her father and that's why her mother lashed out at her daughter. I'm thinking thats why your mom lashes out at you. Because to her, youre the reminder of what she lost and she's taking the pain out on you. I dont know what to tell you if you're not allowed to move out until youre married. But if her lashing out on you is making you mentally drained and emotionally abused, you need to take a moment and think, "Can I really stand to stay?".
2016-03-17 00:41:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could not do that. It definitely would feel like a betrayal to me. But then again, why isn't he in jail? For a very long time? He shouldn't be worrying about getting married ...
I suppose weirder things have happened though.
2007-03-22 05:21:34 · answer #5 · answered by socmum16 ♪ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how could you even think of getting close enough to possably fall in love with him, what are you doing, visiting him in prison? i mean come on, think woman!!!! why dont you explain more of the situation and maybe everyone will quit calling you an idiot....was it an accident or did he murder her or what......i dont know if that would make a huge difference but it is worth a try. I know i could not forgive someone for killing my mom, even if it were an accident, but maybe that is just me.
2007-03-24 12:43:48 · answer #6 · answered by dragonlady162 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this the next plotline on Desperate Housewives? It rivals that show in terms of sheer absurdity. (I actually like that show, but puh-leeze...) Get his tail arrested. Unless you hated your mother, in which case, by the two of you one-way tickets to Mexico or some other country with no extraction policies.
2007-03-22 05:07:01 · answer #7 · answered by Bobby S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not being funny but you shouldn't coz he might be after you, what a creep, kills ur mum then goes off with the daughter. you deserve better than a creep like that.
2007-03-22 05:09:19 · answer #8 · answered by Evertongrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don`t think someone would ever fall in love with someone who murdered their mother. So i can`t imagine anyone accepting.
2007-03-22 05:08:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As the old saying goes marrying him would just kill my mother. I guess that wouldn't apply in your case.
2007-03-22 05:09:33 · answer #10 · answered by Randy L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋