We're both married. We have exchanged looks and raised eyebrows etc. What will happen if I make a move?
2007-03-22 04:52:23 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are MARRIED! What about committing adultery? Does that mean anything to you? If God was to come back today or tomorrow and you did sleep with someone other than your husband, don't you know that he will judge you for that? That is something you shouldn't sin behind, if you want (pp or c**) that bad go to your husband or wife. DO NOT CHEAT!!!!
2007-03-22 04:57:05 · answer #1 · answered by Christina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i can say much u r both married so if u can be around each other with out wanting to do something then maybe u need to stay away. if u two like each other and then u need to think about what u r doing married to other people and if that is really what u want to be doing if u find more reason to stay married then u do to leave the one u r with then stay married if u can't find good reason to stay married then maybe u need to leave them. not that i have much room to talk but i have been here and u r going to hurt the people u say u love if u do not think about what u r doing to them before u two start anything. in the long run it was not the best move i had made now i am not trusted and it has been year from the time it really happened and i still wish i had not done what i had done.
i hope this helps u and u make the right choice good luck with everything.
2007-03-22 12:04:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are both married so you are asking advice about cheating. I can´t help you on that one, but I can tell you that I´ve had sex with a (just a) friend. But it is rare. That is why we are ALL so afraid of the much dreaded ´friend zone´. Nobody wants to flirt endlessly with the (person they´re flirting with) and finally hear, that the other person thinks they are just friends. If you get a girl (or a guy, depending) to tell you that they think of you as nothing more than a friend, that´s the ´friend zone´. Now if you get that same person to tell you, I really like you and think you are sexy, but we can never have a relationship (plenty of sex, though), that is a different ball park amigo(a). But anyway, talking to you about cheating, in my book, is like telling you how to cheat more or less. If you had come and said something about cheating in the past, I might have had more of a sympathetic ear. But hearing about a (big thing like cheating) I can´t help you with that one. You are married. Maybe you should take a look at why you are not satisfied enough with your spouse. And then, after trying EVERYTHING ELSE, you can dump them, or cheat then. But it is still wrong. Use your own discretion on that one. Have a nice day.
2007-03-22 12:03:16 · answer #3 · answered by nassim420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will regret it.
1. Because you're both married, what the hell are you married for if you're both thinking about screwing someone else.
2. Because anytime that you hook up with someone who you never have, it changes everything. You get to know so much about that person and rather than being able to look at them as a friend, you will either look at them as so much more, or respect them so much less.
3. How does it sound like it's the right thing to do? Get a divorce.
2007-03-22 12:04:51 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U shouldnt make a move if u guys are married. It wont end good, and what you do to someone else will always come back to bite you in the butt!
2007-03-22 11:56:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All these people are f@ckin haters, like if you all wouldn't do it...I say if your the girl make a move, a man can't deny a girl...if your the guy try talkin a lil more to her don't flirt though, that will your partner a clue of whatz goin on,..II've done it you regret it for a little while but you'll get over it trust me!!!...
2007-03-22 11:58:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
a friend does not make passes at a married man
2007-03-22 11:54:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the problem with woman, , is they cant just bang it out ( well 99%) sex is about emotion, Men think of sex with Lust,
if it is a one time thing, you might get away with it, but a constant fling she will end up in love and mad
2007-03-22 11:56:15 · answer #8 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife needs to stick a hot poker up your butt!!
sex with a friend while SINGLE is ok, but your a damn snake!
2007-03-22 12:12:50 · answer #9 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Raised eyebrows??? Are you sure it wasn't gas??
Why are you asking such a whorish question??
2007-03-22 12:09:33 · answer #10 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋