My mom and dad .......?

Question

are trying to work it out. They been divorced for 3 yrs my mom has had a kid from another guy. I HATE my dad GREATLY. We just havent gotten along since my parents have been divorced. When my mom told me she was thinking about trying to make it work again i cried from 2 days. My mom asked me what ithought i told her my dads done to much to us to just forget and told her i feel. She said im acting like a baby. I havent really talk to her the last 3 days and now there going out of state tonight to a casino. I dont want them together its not going to work i know this way to much in the past to forget. I dont know what to do anymore...

Answer 1

hwy,
i see where your coming from but it is really your mums decision. if she sees this as a way to be happy then let her try to be happy. you need to remember, they both have a baby together, you, and with that does come an unbreakable bond. if you dont like it, tough.why not just sit back and let them work it out, you never know, it could work and youl all be happy..
if it doesnt, atleast your mom will know for sure it isnt to be and youl be there to comfort her, not just to say 'i told you so'

relax a bit, stop fretting and running the rule over your mums life, enjoy your own

Answer 2

Well honey, there isn't much more you can do sence you have told your mom how you feel.

Are there grandpareents or aunts or uncles they may agree to let you go live with if they make this a real getting back together thing?

My parents did the same thing. It only worked about 1 more month. I elected to live with dad, but he said I couldn't stay!

Hope there is someone you can talk to. But know in your heart you have expressed your feelings.

Maybe try telling your dad how he has treated you in the past and how you don't want to live through it any longer?
Let him know your old enough now to report to authorities if he pulls any BS!!

Answer 3

It's not up to you. Someday you will grow up and leave the house, and choose who you want to have a relationship with. If your Mom thinks this is right for her, then it's her issue. You can choose, even if he has a relationship with your Mom, to NOT have a relationship with your Dad.

Answer 4

this may be hard to do at first but try to walk a mile in your dads shoes or put yourself in his shoes.how would you feel if your children disliked you? your dad has made mistakes but he is still YOUR DAD, not every child gets that. please try to understand everyone makes mistakes and deserves to be forgiven,none are perfect. he only wants the best for you.