I'm talking like a problem or issue that may be has been ignored or buried for years. Something that you know has always been ther but for whatever reason your brain decides to rehash it out today. Then you are left wondering where in the h*ll did that come from? Ex. I feel madly in love at 15 to a guy that was 21 and that was 14 years ago we dated for a year and a half and he found out that he had Hepatitis C (we never had sex) so he let me go.( If your guys have ever seen the movie The Notebook you can understand how I felt about him.)Now we are both married and miserable with our spouses ( for various legitimet reasons) and we both have children. I spent the last 10 yrs trying to bury his memory, but my brain keeps purdging it back up. I have woke up in Nightmares that involve him every morning for the past several days and I have no idea what to do ..or why this is happening. How do I make this all stop?
2007-03-22 04:35:04 · 3 answers · asked by Destiny 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
find the guy and see what he's up too... whats it gonna hurt, maybe his time is near and he's trying to find you too... I remember my first love, he was a really hot mormon missionary trying to convert me, needless to say all I wanted to do was make out with him. never worked, I'm still depressed to this day.
2007-03-22 04:38:23 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ღαмαиdα♥ღ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have the what if syndrome, your miserable now so you think it is your fault because if you would of made a different decision back then to stay with him you might not be miserable in your relationship now. The truth is if you would of stayed with that guy instead, you two might be miserable today. You say you have kids, I suggest couples therapy,and if you have to get divorced don't go back to the past you just might repeat the present.
2007-03-22 11:42:53 · answer #2 · answered by The Captain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's happened to me plenty of times.
2007-03-22 11:40:37 · answer #3 · answered by trev_bash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋