I am 17 but i already know i want to take my virginity to marriage...save it for my future husband. do you as men think that is a good thing?? or would u rather want to marry a woman who has had s** before??? this is a hypothetical question...im not getting married yet.....im just saying i want to save my virginity for my future husband lol.
2007-03-22 04:18:26 · 22 answers · asked by ILoveGreen ZipZapZop 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
zeke58....what a great answer...u have made my day :).
2007-03-22 04:29:12 · update #1
On second thought, maybe i do need to experience s** before i get married. it would be nice to be able to compare guys lol.
2007-03-22 08:41:30 · update #2
I don't like the idea of virgins or marriage! lol
2007-03-22 04:30:09 · answer #1 · answered by Oliver T4 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I married a virgin when i was 20, we did not wait till we were married for sex, but i was the only person she had been with, after five years of marriage, she cheated with a coworker and it ended our marriage, now we are divorced. she wanted to experiment with other guys and that is why this happened, if she had experienced this before, we probably would still be together, now i am married to a wonderfull women and from a mans sake the sex is 300 times more satisfying with the experience we both have brought into this relationship, unlike before it is awesome, so my answer would be, yes while devirginizing a women is always special and has a great meaning in life and knowing you were her first and only, it can have setbacks for her in the relationship later, if the guy can deal with the past i say marry the experienced to some what (not a whore) and enjoy the sex together for the rest of your lives!!!
2007-03-22 12:18:42 · answer #2 · answered by 100pacentcrasy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a woman aspect. They really don't care. Every man likes a virgin weather they marry you or not. Because they know noone else has been with you and you will not give them any disease and they hate wearing condoms anyway. But they love the thought that your vagina is still tight meaning no matter how small there penis is it will still fit. And women who have been with another man vagina is slightly stretched out of place and the man gets no feeling when he goes in. If she is very sexually active then he realllllly can't feel anything. So be careful later on down the line that one does not try to get in your panties with just a promise to get married.
2007-03-22 11:27:05 · answer #3 · answered by My two cents 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My goodness, in this day and age, I wouldn't marry a virgin. Honestly, how could you commit to being with the same person for the rest of your life and not know if you are sexually compatible. Every person is different in bed and has different likes/dislikes, would you commit to eating a food you have never tasted before forever without every trying it, pretty much the same thing. Sounds like a guarentee for disaster. Then if they aren't a virgin and you are, in the future when you realize that sex isn't that big a deal, you will always wonder what it would feel like with someone else.
2007-03-22 11:38:13 · answer #4 · answered by Jay 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That's great that your saving yourself, but what happens if you marry someone and they are really horrible in bed, what then ? do you spend the rest of your life not being happy in that department ??.
Also what happens if you marry and after a while find out that your interests and goals are not the same and you divorce ?, do you then save yourself for the next husband ??.
To me it would make no difference whether my future wife was a virgin or not !!.
2007-03-22 11:31:12 · answer #5 · answered by Richard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I will not marry a virgin. What's the whole hype about this virginity business anyway?
I want a girl who has had one or two lovers before me and knows how to handle men and relationships. Given a choice between a virgin and a non-virgin, I'll go for the non-virgin anyday.
2007-03-22 11:32:09 · answer #6 · answered by Taharqa 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're doing the right thing, and that's all that really matters. You'll draw to yourself the right sort of men and the others (who are the vast majority, unfortunately) will naturally fall away.
This is what a lot of girls and young women don't understand.
2007-03-22 11:21:03 · answer #7 · answered by Joe C 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think if you can make it that far, then you are a special woman! Personally, it would not matter to me, once you became my wife a whole new life would begin for the both of us...its a clean start!
2007-03-22 11:21:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
yes you save it for the man you love and not for some randy male who just wants to feather his own nest and brag to all his mates that he's stud of the year well done you I hope you save because it's a rare thing now
2007-03-22 11:26:08 · answer #9 · answered by weebobby 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
what you are doing is a great thing. keep it up.
i think as men, it not that we necessarily want to marry a virgin, but we definitely are tired of all the wh*res. Too many chicks nowadays jump into bed with guys and while it's great for fun, we have no respect for them.
It more about the fact that your conviction shows that you respect yourself ,and we find THAT attractive. Also, it shows that you dont have a few drinks and screw around with whatever hot guy comes up to you - and that makes us feel SPECIAL if you choose us.
thank you for restoring my faith in today's youth...God bless you!!
2007-03-22 11:25:44 · answer #10 · answered by zeke58 3 · 3⤊ 3⤋