my husband and i were living out of motel due to past legal issues on his part. just last month i left to babysit grandkids and he packed my belongings and left them on daughters door step with no warning. i am now homeless, no income and unable to work because of neck and back problems. he now is working full time. making very good money, has just gotten his own apartment, a truck and still has some of our household belongings he has divorce papers but has not filed i have not a clue as to what i can do legally or what i am entitled to. have been with him 31 yrs. married for 29 am i entitled to spousal support or half of the new purchases he's making since no papers have been filed? and do i have to accept them if or when they are filed? i still love him very much and would love to have him back. please someone help me
2007-03-22 04:17:35 · 7 answers · asked by MIMKA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get an attorney and sue him for spousal support. And yes half of everything he purchases while you are still marred belongs to you. If he has filed already get an attorney to answer if now I would file first.
2007-03-22 04:24:11 · answer #1 · answered by angie a 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Call legal aid in your area they are free and they can guide you as to where to go to file for a divorce and file for support, you deserve to be compensated, have you thought about filing for social security for your back problems? If you cant qualify for that , go to Social Services and they can help you get a job,apartment,food stamps to name just a few so you can get back on your feet. Don't take him back, he wasn't concerned about you at all when he left you in that situation, start fresh. Good Luck to you.
2007-03-22 04:25:28 · answer #2 · answered by Urchin 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go to your local city gvnmt office they have programs to get you food and shelter. go file papers yourself so you can start getting some of his income.and your stuff back.good luck your better off without him .if hes so cold as to just up and leave you he aint worth squat anyhow.Sounds like the same kinda guy who doesnt want a pet so he drives out in the country and drops it out the door..there are plenty of guys who will treat you right.
2007-03-22 04:24:44 · answer #3 · answered by I race cars 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men can be so nasty sometimes. Get a good divorce lawyer and sue his a ss
2007-03-22 05:03:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can sue him for spousal support, you can pray for your marraige and talk to a pastor, still you must file now for spousal support, do not let him get away with this,.
2007-03-22 04:25:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Get a lawyer and give him one heck of a wake up call. You get half of it ALL.
2007-03-22 04:29:36 · answer #6 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its time to get mean u are entitled to allamony have his retirement..
2007-03-22 04:24:18 · answer #7 · answered by plumcouch30 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋