she lies about everything i tell you and she is even jealous of me and my other best friend
2007-03-22 04:00:42 · 10 answers · asked by RaNisha R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
shes a pathological lier, doesnt sound good to me....get rid of her...
2007-03-22 04:04:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who lie constantly are what's known as "pathological liars." In some cases, this is a mental condition (similar to Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, if you know what that is) in which the person in question can't stop lying-- even if they know it's bad to lie and the other person will find them out. Believe it or not, compulsive liars were sometimes put in mental hospitals not too long ago!
Lucky for your friend, I'm pretty positive she doesn't belong in a mental institution :) She's just starving for your attention. She probably sees you and your other best friend having fun and feels left out. Instead of getting mad at her when she lies or calling her out on them (she'll just deny it and make up another lie), consider hanging out with just her a bit. Or, if you don't like to leave your other best friend out of the loop, bring her along-- but bring another friend along, too. That way, all of you will always have someone to sit by or talk with wherever you're going. Just make sure you still pay attention to your liar friend.
In any case, just hang in there. As long as you keep reminding her through your words and actions that she's still a best friend, she should eventually start telling the truth again.
2007-03-22 11:19:56 · answer #2 · answered by janeowyn180 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may have a mental disability like adhd or bipolor which causes sum to be a hibitual lier either understand and look past it or stop being her freind and for he jelousy maybe shes a real needy person who craves one on one attention also a mental disability she may need therapy and possably medication but shes really needy and requires support on what ever going on in her head so be strong and patient or move on just dont give her extra problems or stress by being mean or by holding her at a distance from you seems shes had enough of that already she may think your other freind may pull you away from her stand by her or quit but dont leave her hanging or break apart meanly
2007-03-22 11:11:18 · answer #3 · answered by wh1te_diamond06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want a best friend that you can't trust and get lied too?
This doesn't speak well of you as much as her.
2007-03-22 11:04:00 · answer #4 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
urh, i'd first want to know if u n her really r best friends coz i thought people only have one best friend c...
anyway, perhaps ur friend's feeling insecure... maybe there're things she thinks will never allow her to be "in" if u undersatnd w@ i mean 2 say...
maybe lying wouldn't be the best term to use..
and there goes a saying in french about friends:
"a deux sa va; a trois bienvenu la catastrophe!"
means it's great when there're two of you(no sharing) but when a third party comes on scene:
jealousy,insecurity...blablabla...
try talking to her about it all! make it clear wat u've observed!
i'm sure her behaviour'll change for the better.
goodluk n i hope ur friendship lasts! O:-)
2007-03-22 11:17:07 · answer #5 · answered by Littlehrt... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband was liying all the time so i was ambarissing him all the time so step by step he stopped tell lies cause he felt that he is 2 small in my eyes and the others eyes
2007-03-22 11:10:39 · answer #6 · answered by catroza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant stand compulsive liars!!! Jealously from friends when you have other friends is not a healthy friendship. I would drop this girl quick!!!
2007-03-22 11:28:48 · answer #7 · answered by ItalianPrincess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a liar can put an innocent person in the electric chair, don't be friends with a liar.
2007-03-22 11:08:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her and tell her to be herself, you dont like fake people.
she has nothing to lie about. tell her to stop being scared.
2007-03-22 11:05:49 · answer #9 · answered by iCantAidYou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate those people...stay away from her..for good..shes not worth to be with
2007-03-22 11:15:08 · answer #10 · answered by didie y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋