My best friend has got this stupid boyfriend who keeps breaking up with her then crying his way back into her arms. he keeps telling her all of this stupid crap, first he says that they are not meant to be together and shouldnt talk anymore, then he cries to her about how much he loves her. And! while they were dating, he was talking to a 12 year old! hes 19 and my friend is 17. In the end he left her for the 12 year old but still wanted to mess around with my friend. SO point blank, he wants to have his cake and eat it too and everytime something goes wrong she calls me cryin. Well i am just tired of dealing with his stupid butt and i wish she would just leave him alone! What should i do about this, please give me some advice?!
2007-03-22 04:00:22 · 8 answers · asked by 6cowgirl11 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Talk to your friend about it and tell her how you feel. Tell her how he is just seemingly using her, which she may be blinded from. Then take your friend out and meet some guys...some that would actually treat her like she ought to be treated :)
2007-03-22 04:04:13 · answer #1 · answered by Faith P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all its illegal for him to actually "be with" (as in have an intimate relationship with) a 12 year old if he's nineteen. If that may be the case I would report it.
As far as what you can do about your friends situation with him, there isn't much you can do. You can be honest and tell her how you feel about how he treats her but I would be sensitive about it. Should she decide to stay with him she may become angry with you if you do or say anything too dramatic, and stop being friends with you. It sounds a little ridiculous but I have lost a friend by giving her too much advice about her boyfriend in the past, she thought I was lying or just jealous of her relationship.....though at first she did agree with me, things changed when they got back together.
In short, tell her she deserves better and express your feelings about it, but in a non-judgmental way. Be suportive and listen to her feelings as well.
2007-03-22 04:12:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mind your own business. Not for you to do anything.
A friend is different so be there when your friend needs you. Do not tell the friend what or what not to do. Talk but mostly listen because people really need to hear themselves say things so they understand better.
Don't put all the blame on one. There are two involved not just one.
2007-03-22 04:12:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the police and report him as a child molester, that is what he is, messing around with a 12 year old is a felony and he should be in prison. She probably wouldn't want to talk to him after that.
2007-03-22 04:11:41 · answer #4 · answered by mingcrew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to stop taking him back. eww with a 12 y/o she needs to think bout that... hes with some lil slut and shes gonna get back with him? thats wrong. tell her forget bout him she can do better. if she keeps taking him back its always going to be the same... ive seen that kinda relationship with one of my friends and after i told her stop she did then found a really nice guy like 2 months later... it may be hard for her but tell her just ignore him and if they are together now tell her to dump him and never take him back... hes a loser!
2007-03-22 04:06:21 · answer #5 · answered by nightmares5031 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a Hitman and finish him off or just your friend to find better guys that are better than her boyfriend.
2007-03-22 04:04:46 · answer #6 · answered by Miguel C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
set ur friend up on a blind date. or go find a better man 4 her.
2007-03-22 04:03:46 · answer #7 · answered by sexy_stud829 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
f em all
2007-03-22 04:03:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋