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2007-03-22 03:59:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting Pregnancy

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Well, I have written about this question together with other people and our forum is very interesting. You might want to view it, as it will be pivotal in defining what sort of Labour you are talking about.
For me, Labour is not something I can do "anywhere"; it is about finding a SAFE environment. Of course, I am sure you want that for your Baby, but you have to put something in place. If you do not ensure certain conditions, I do not want to think what you will feel, since the experience will be one of imposition, pain, absurd ways of labouring on your back, and the list of horrors goes on & on. The odds are Women who have given Birth in Hospitals will speak about their Labour in terms of pain, pain and more pain - painless pain, but Pain. Then some might tell you how an epidural helped, but their outcome was forceps or whatever brutality must be used in conjunction with those methods (forceps=big episiotomy=big risks to your Womanhood); others will describe hours of Hell, followed by a C.section and the list of Horror Movies goes on... When Baby finally gets ripped out of the Mother, then it is all smiles... I bet. What you are not told, is how physically these poor Women have been "changed". Some of them don't feel like smiling after Birth and their Baby might not be so happy either. Besides, I can tell you, in many cases of Hospital practices, you would never allow anyone to treat your Baby in the manner it is treated at Birth. Suffice to say this belief in this Labour from Hell is painful, scary, diminishing of a Woman's worth and ultimately an experience very unlike the real empowerment, ecstacy and forever inspiring life-achievement, which Labour can be. Which one will you believe ? Which one do you want to "feel"? As the saying goes: "Come to terms with your fears and desires".

P.S. Don't forget your Partner in your "coming to terms". It is your duty to think of your Life-Partner, don't you think ? If you risk suffering so much, do you expect the Love of your Life to share in this risky venture ? You are prepared to allow People to do unnecessary damage to you, thereby compromising your intimacy and Union? Your Partner has the right to demand that his Wife and Baby remain intact as much as possible; surely, you recognise that right.

2007-03-22 04:35:15 · answer #1 · answered by Frederique C 3 · 1 2

I laughed a lttle while I learn this due to the fact that I promise you, the final factor in your brain earlier than, for the duration of and after exertions would be the antibiotics. You can be experiencing such a lot of different feelings that this would possibly not be an dilemma for you. I too am GBS + and can be recieving antibiotics for the second time round. I received them via a heplock IV in my hand for the duration of the first being pregnant. The something I do advocate to you is to make certain that you simply designate a loved ones member to make certain that you simply do certainly get the antibiotics. If left untreated, their is a chance that your baby can die. I had a pal who ended up having a C-segment and they did not deliver her the antibiotics due to the fact that they inspiration she did not want them when you consider that she wasn't having a vaginal beginning and her little one died two days later with Step B. As lengthy as you recieve the antibiotic, you and your baby can be secure. If they deliver you penicillin, a caution, it does burn in the event that they pump it in to speedily. Just have them flip the velocity down at the computer in the event you enjoy this. I needed to have them each four hours at a gradual fee due to the fact that of this. You'll be simply exceptional :) Enjoy your pregancy and satisfactory of good fortune to you!

2016-09-05 11:52:51 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

I don't really understand your question, but I think the answer is IN A LOT OF PAIN!!!!!!!!
At first it isn't so bad, that is when you sort of get excited and realize that in the next couple of days you will actually have a baby, you start phoning everybody you know and maybe a little scared.
Then the real pain hits, and nothing else matters!!!!
The doctors actually sent me home because I wasn't dialated enough, and I felt helpless, terrified and desperate to get back to the hospital where the drugs are!!!!

2007-03-22 04:10:36 · answer #3 · answered by butterfliesbrown 3 · 1 0

I had my baby totally unmedicated. I tell you I felt like I was on autopilot, aside from the pain, which you know about, it kind of feels like you are hallucinating. Like, shaky and nervous and then calm and settled. I was pretty anxious at the beginning then when the hard contractions set in I was irritable and saying all sorts of crazy things! You have a ton of natural hormones and chemicals coursing through your body and your inhibitions are gone.

2007-03-22 04:14:43 · answer #4 · answered by bb 4 · 0 0

At early labor you are okay. Some back pain like a period maybe crapping too. When contractions get regular and stronger, they begin to hurt. Ask for drugs. They help and are there for a reason. Get the epidural too. You can actually enjoy watching your child being born and be happier.

2007-03-22 04:06:24 · answer #5 · answered by noitall 4 · 1 0

well I can tell you from experience that the more you walk,the less pain and the shorter labor you have,I won't lie to you it hurts,but as soon as you see your new baby,you forget all about the pain.It actually feels like you have to go to the bathroom really bad and can't.make sure you take a lamaze class to learn to breath and you should be ok.good luck with the birth

2007-03-22 04:08:10 · answer #6 · answered by gypsy d 2 · 0 0

I am pregnant with my fourth so I am knocking on wood after I finish this question. I had 3 fast and easy labors. I had an epidural with all of them. I was in good spirits and had my nurses and doctors laughing at me. Its all how you handel your pain. Good luck to you and I hope you have a fast and easy labor.

2007-03-22 04:12:04 · answer #7 · answered by Sari 2 · 0 0

Nervous, cranky when a contraction approaches.
Hungry,sweaty,excited. It's a mix of feelings hard to explain.

2007-03-22 04:10:48 · answer #8 · answered by lizzy 4 · 1 0

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