i lost baby harrison ... in november.... and was told i could start relativley strait away now its only been months but.. i really want a baby and so does my partner.. i have a sneaky suspicion i might be now but im so terrified... that im just going to be dissapointed....again... but i have everything that a baby needs (because of harrison) and nothing to do with it some of it isnt even used.... i have a very stressfull job and a lovely active 3 year old.... but wot am i doing wrong to be dissapointed all the time ....
2007-03-22 03:49:29 · 9 answers · asked by honey 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
i feel the exact same way...i miscarried in january and i just strated again in february and im praying frequently so im just trying to stay positive!...
p.s i have a little suspicion that i MAy be as well!
2007-03-22 03:54:11 · answer #1 · answered by somebodysmamasoon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry too much. I'm very sorry for your loss. The main thing to remember is that you have a loving and supportive husband and family. You might be pregnant - congrats if you are but if your not then that's OK. Mother nature has it's way of doing things. It may be you will have to wait a while but try not to think about all the time. Putting pressure on yourself to get pregnant will make you stressed and your little 3yr old will pick up on this. Maybe trying for another baby so soon is not the best answer. Maybe you should focus on what you have instead of what you want. Good luck for the future x
2007-03-22 03:58:13 · answer #2 · answered by moopoppet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YAWN is a jerk, don't listen...you're still grieving your loss. Relax if you can and take care of yourself so that you will feel better. That is most important. I miscarried a set of twins in '02. It took us 3 years to get pg, so I know about disappointment. I would pack the stuff up and put it in storage that way you don't have to look at it all the time and be reminded. When you conceive again, take a little out at a time. Being stressed out can be detrimental to trying to conceive, so try to keep your mind on things that will calm you. Enjoy and relish the 3 year old you have. It will happen, just don't give up.
2007-03-22 04:05:12 · answer #3 · answered by MommaKimmy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When did you lose your son in November? I lost my Stefano on Nov. 16 to what they say was an incompetant cervix. We are also ttc again. But I just had a D and C at the end of jan. My old doc was an idiot! I hope I am pregger this month too but I ovulated late, so hopefully we still get lucky. Good luck to you and your hubby.
2007-03-22 04:46:34 · answer #4 · answered by sicilygrl8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound depressed and understandably. It would be wonderful to be pregnant again, yes? Maybe God has a bigger plan for you all. You need to take care of yourself and you need to lift your spirits a bit. If you are pregnant, you certainly want a happy baby, yes? So take care of mom first. Stress will only make things worse. Good luck and remember...Harrison could be sending you some happiness...angels often do!
2007-03-22 03:57:07 · answer #5 · answered by noitall 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am very sorry for your loss. You know, it happens a lot that women lose babies and they are fine with the next pregnancy. Trying not to be so stressed might help. Perhaps you can take yoga or meditation classes.
God Bless
2007-03-22 03:53:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry for your loss i know what you are going through i lost my 1st son he was 2 days old, took me 4 months before i fell again for my 2nd one, you will never forget harrison but does make it easier to deal with when you do get pregnant again. you just have to relax and try not to keep thinking about things and it will happen, good luck xxx
2007-03-22 05:39:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, just jump straight into the love sack and you'll forget all about the lost baby.
Good luck
2007-03-22 03:52:59 · answer #8 · answered by *YAWN* 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋
GOO WILD BABY
2007-03-22 03:56:40 · answer #9 · answered by dueceyourface 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋