I have been on three dates with this guy and we talk on the phone often too. I have know him now for a few weeks.Hes great, we get along great and have a lot in common. We have only made out and he has never once pressured me to have sex. I am 20 and so is he, the thing is I am a virgin and I dont think he is. Will me being a virgin turn him off. And when I finally do sleep with him, will he care I have no experiance? And is waiting a couple months asking too much of him?
2007-03-22 03:39:22 · 6 answers · asked by annoynmus 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If your still a virgin at 20yr. don't give it to someone too freely, unless you KNOW this is the right guy for you-I applaude you!!!! w/ all the promiscuous C*** in this world right now, I really think highly of a girl who respect's herself enough, to not have given into the pressure of society!!!If he won't wait?- then I would say, He's probably not the ONE. your still young,mister right will come around someday-It's really a personal choice, but, if he won't wait????? You need to decide if you want to give up something so special to someone who doe'snt respect your wish's Good Luck, & wene he find's out ur a virgin, should'nt turn him off- should make him think more highly of you!& also, maybe, wait 'till you find the one you want to marry?
2007-03-22 05:46:20 · answer #1 · answered by mgle3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this right. You are worried that he might be turned off because you are a virgin. Hey girl, he gets to pop your cherry. If he is not interested, give me a shout.
2007-03-22 17:05:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
genereally males like to date with virgin. if he comes to know that then he will be very happy of
so don't worry .
and tell u be virgin till u get married
it s good for health
2007-03-22 10:49:01 · answer #3 · answered by sharada 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is none of his business until you are at that point of your relationship. I would wait as long as it takes for you to decide if he is really the one for you. Twenty is still very young and you should take things slow. It's so much better when you do.
2007-03-22 10:45:10 · answer #4 · answered by kitkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have that talk with him
sometime when you are alone and its private
get him to say how many partners he had, roughly
see what the chances are you might catch something bad, physical or psychological
then if it seems safe maybe go for it
make sure he is nice to you and that you like him
2007-03-22 10:44:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you think you're ready then go for it! But i think you should tell him and if he acts weird about it then cut him loose
2007-03-22 10:44:21 · answer #6 · answered by Em 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋