Well first off, congrats on the new baby!!
I remember feeling so self concious about how I looked the first year after each of my children were born (I have 3) because I was breast-feeding and unable to loose weight as quickly as maybe I might have desired.
First thing, connect with other moms... (trust me, this will help how you feel. Especially about the yoga pants-- cause girl, you're not the only one! We alllll do it.) Try & find a mommy & me group. Put your wee one in swimming lessons if over 6 months, ask your doctor or health unit if there are any free parenting groups in your area. Heck, start hanging out at the local park more.. getting out for a walk and just sitting on the bench for a bit each day will help you too even if you don't meet another mommy right off the bat.
Your clothing needs are going to change. That was hard for me to adjust to. Bye bye size 5... hello elastic waistbands & what felt like training bras (nursing bras)
If you feel you need help just learning what different styles are going to fit, what is in style this year, etc... I suggest going to Macy's or a department store where you know you can get some help from women who are in the know. You don't have to buy everything you see (mind you, Macy's can have some great sales. lol) but gather ideas in your head, let the women help you with sizes.. learn to appreciate the new you. The mommy your lil baby adores. :)
If you see something you really like but maybe wince at the price tag... here are some alternatives:
Salvation Army, Value Village, 2nd Hand, Consignment, Wal-Mart even!!
As for your teeth, well: Crest makes some fantastic whitening products, and lysterine makes a whitening pre-rinse that my sister swears by. Why not give something like that a whirl before more expensive alternatives. With whiter teeth, it gives you more self confidence and maybe then you wont even notice that your teeth are unlevel.
Good luck girl :) enjoy your baby, enjoy being a mom.. this time passes so fast!
2007-03-22 04:09:57
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answered by fashionista 2
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1. Try a new haircolor from the discount store. Nothing drastic mind you, but just different. Some will add shine and body to your hair which adds to your self-esteem.
2. Go get the stuff to give yourself an at-home facial while the baby is napping.
3. New lipgloss and/or nail polish.
4. Follow the instructions on something like the Crest AdvancedWhite system. In about two weeks, it can lighten up most stains unless you had too much iron in your water as a child. That permanently causes discoloration of your tooth enamel.
5. Put on regular clothes and do your hair and makeup every day for a week even if no one else will see it. Just a little discipline can lift your spirits.
Please think long and hard before considering laminates for your teeth. There are several horror stories surrounding them. Besides, laminates are not cheap.
2007-03-22 03:44:51
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answered by AuntLala 3
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Just realize that people don't care about your teeth as much as you do. I know this as I have terrible looking teeth, but other people don't notice it at all, it's sort of weird.
Also, go shopping with some friends, maybe at H&M or somewhere equally European and buy yourself something good, treat yourself. If nothing else at least do it for your baby, so it doesn't have to grow up with frumpy mom.
As for feeling hot, wear your new clothes out on the town with some friends, with your head high and confident, especially around a gaggle of teenage boys, watch the drool and revel in the power of sexyness!
2007-03-22 03:43:13
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answered by Luis 6
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Go to the mall to a makeup counter and get your makeup done, its free and it will give u an idea on what colors look best on you, you dont have to purchase anything there u can find similar products at the drugstore.A semi-permanet haircolor can brighten up hair without damage or visible roots growing out , Try natural instincts. Go to the 15dollarstore.com for affordable cute fashions. Crest whitestrips will whiten your teethin a couple of weeks, and almost everyone has uneven teeth but if it bothers u that much see a dentist. Good luck!
2007-03-22 04:19:22
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answered by hdawn692003 3
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Hey it is okay to wear the yoga clothes around the house but when you go out try wearing some jeans and nice pretty shirt. It's getting hot so you want to start to buy tank top shirt if you feel comfortable wearing them and find some nicce flip flops or sneakers and then treat your self to get your hear done and nail and go hang out to mall with friends and trust me you feel alot better.
2007-03-22 03:37:40
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answered by Sesily E 1
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Go to Old Navy and get some cute cheap clothes.
Get a haircut (and/or color).
Get a manicure and pedicure (always makes a girl feel better!).
Wear cute shoes.
Put on dangly earrings.
Get teeth whitening strips.
Make an appointment to go to the dentist and get invisalign for your teeth.
2007-03-22 03:40:44
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answered by afling78 2
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When providing salvation, the New Testament writers cautiously selected phrases that emphasize grace and freedom. As a influence, the Bible might no longer be extra transparent—salvation is surely unfastened, the actual reward of God in Christ, and our handiest accountability is to acquire the reward through religion (John a million:12; three:sixteen; Ephesians two:eight-nine).
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answered by ? 4
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I am not joking..but the teeth you have can be very sexy if you believe so.
And just change to something else ..whatever...even your old clothes...and a little bit make up...and walk on the street..do not stay at home..Feel confident and you will be surprised.
Guarantee!
2007-03-22 03:42:54
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answered by icare.yourimage 1
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first you gotta get out of your yoga pants - NOW!!! even if you just buy a new top - something really petite - do your hair, your nails - and put some make-up on!! Just go do something special with your baby!!
2007-03-22 03:37:47
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answered by Immortal 4
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you just need to go out in the world. its spring enjoy it, go for soft summery colours and flattery dresses. love yourself your teeth. if u are that much bothered abt your teeth, pay a visit to the dentist.
2007-03-22 03:39:58
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answered by Anonymous
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