Whassup With Leos And There Tempers???

Question

I have noticed that male leos have issues with communication...whassup with that?

I really don't want to carry around the thought that I will never deal with another Leo male again but i'm close to it and its exhausting sometimes, I mean, how hard is it to lay things on the table and just talk about it and move on with it.

I was told not to assume but then when i ask questions I still get resistence.

So are people supposed to dance around leos, not ask questions and talk about superficial, surface stuff.

Am i understanding that leo men can't go deep.

My mom is a Leo and although she does have that I'm always right mentality, we can definitely chat it up about anything and laugh about it or take it seriously depending on the issue.

My brother is a Leo and he had a temper like Stalin or Pol Pot LOL!! When he was sunny and fun, the light would shine on the world but when he was brewding and mean, he was the worse person to be around and deal with. So i would leave him alone and not deal with his BS and of course him being a leo needed alot of attention so he would eventually come back around and we would get along great but when we didn't it was hell, well it was until I decided to not communicate or interact with him at all and we still don't talk till this day but yet again my mom is a leo and she doesn't talk to him either...go figure

There cerainly is a huge difference between leo men and women in the communication department.

I'm not impressed and I will run from the next leo I meet, of course i'm going to ride this one out but this is the first and the last.

I received perspective from a leo female and she said...I don't think this is just a male thing. I have been accused of this as well. Except I don't mind talking about deeper topics. It's only when it comes to the relationship aspect that I get stuck. I have a hard time showing vulnerability and I would assume if it's like this for the women, it's worse for the males. That has to suck.

so it's a vulnerability issue with leos...interesting.

it's not that he's the problem, its the fact that maybe i'm not fully understanding and need to be more sensitive to that...i'm not judging leos, i just don't like the complicated communication process...it seems that leos are okay as long as they aren't talking about deeper relationship issues.

i too had a run in with a leo female and she probed one of my friends about me and my current situation and that was psycho within itself but other than that i love leo females...nothing negative to really say but i feel what your saying for sure.

Answer 1

I am a Leo, and we are very stubborn at times, and will not give in on some situations when we should. We like things to go our way, and we often bully other people. And sometimes we are very affectionate and love to be with the one we adore the most...go figure! I didn't make me, GOD did...you got a problem with Leos, ask him!!

Answer 2

I've only dealt with the females & while they can be your best friend & there til the end generous, funny ect.
They have major control & being right and bossy issues.
Fell out with one stop talking to her for 6 yrs. reunited to try a freindship again,she did it all over agian now 4 months later I'm thriugh shes a phsyco, cant do it to myself

Answer 3

Well I am a Leo and I know we have a fiery temper but we are very stubborn and can be somewhat moody. Leos are not known for having a temper. That is Aries.....Remember, your zodiac sign does not give you all your traits, you have to find what peoples rising signs are....That explaines more.

Answer 4

It is from a life time of being called/compared to a lion!

Answer 5

The Leo type is the most dominant, spontaneously creative and extrovert of all the zodiacal characters. In grandeur of manner, splendor of bearing and magnanimity of personality, they are the monarch's among humans as the lion is king of beasts. They are ambitious, courageous, dominant, strong willed, positive, independent, self-confident there is no such a word as doubt in their vocabularies, and they are self-controlled. Born leaders, either in support of, or in revolt against, the status quo. They are at their most effective when in a position of command, their personal magnetism and innate courtesy of mind bringing out the best of loyalty from subordinates. They are uncomplicated, knowing exactly what they want and using all their energies, creativeness and resolution to get it, as well as being certain that they will get whatever they are after. Their followers know where they are with Leonians. Leonians think and act bigger than others would normally dare; the ambitiousness of their schemes and idealism sometimes daunt their followers, their practical hardheadedness and ability to go straight to the heart of any problem reassures those who depend on them. If Leonians meet with setbacks they thrive on the adversity.

On the whole they are powers for good, for they are strongly idealistic, humane, and beneficent. They have powerful intelligence and are of a broad philosophical, sometimes religious, turn of mind. Those who are devout may become very obstinate in upholding traditional beliefs and will cling tenaciously, but with complete sincerity, to practices and doctrines which liberal thinkers regard as absurdly out-of-date. These will be found as the 'lions' of industries, and in the forefront of the cutting edge of technologies.

Their faults can be as large in scale as their virtues, and an excessively negative Leonian can be one of the most unpleasant human beings imaginable, displaying extreme arrogance, autocratic pride, haughtiness, and excessive hastiness of temper. If jealously suspicious of rivals, they will not hesitate to use cunning, lies and trickery to discredit them. Self-centeredness, greed for flattery, boastfulness, and bombast, pomposity, snobbish superiority, and overbearing, and intolerant disdain of underlings; to whom they will nevertheless delegate the carrying out of minor details in their grandiose schemes, and from whom they are not above borrowing immoderately if an occasion necessitates it. Any of these can be characteristic of Leo.

Add to them a passion for luxury, a lust for power, unlimited sexual lust, and emotional indulgence, and a character emerges that no one would want to know either in public life or private. But their pride may go before a fall, as uncontrolled impetuosity is likely to bring them low. Fortunately it is rare that a Leo is so undisciplined as to give way thoroughly to this list of vices, and their tendencies to them are usually balanced by an innate wisdom. Those who are afflicted with them also have the intelligence it takes to consciously and actively overcome them.

In professional life they do well at any vocation at which there is room at the top. As politicians they are content with nothing less than a powerful position in government. In business they may be the chairman of their company's board, or at least directors or managers. They are excellent organizers and overseers, often laying the groundwork for new projects. If from the artisan ranks of society they will aspire to become the boss, partly because they are ambitious by nature, partly because they dislike manual labor, preferring to take charge of others doing it. If artistic, Leos can become stars of stage or screen (their bent is serious rather than light drama), maestros as musicians where they will gravitate toward the grand instruments or activities, such as the organ or conducting of orchestras and as painters; anything grand in conception and scale appeals to them. Leo women make exceptionally good welfare workers.

In his or her relations with others the Leo type is open, sincere, genuine and trusting. Outgoing, spontaneously warm hearted and plain spoken, though never lacking in kindliness, Leos are more disillusioned than the average if let down by those they trust. They are not good judges of character and are inclined to favoritism and an exaggerated faith in their followers which too often ends in disappointment. They have a strong sex drive and are so attracted to the opposite sex that they find it hard to be constant; they can be so intensely sexual as to become dissolute. They may have numerous love affairs for their love of pleasure and beauty is liable to drive them from one attractive partner to another. They are very much inclined to deceive. Their marriages may fail for the same reason, yet they are sincere and generous to their lovers while love lasts, and will remain attached to their homes so long as it is run for their benefit. They demand service but are incapable of giving it.