when i did this i never intended for him or my best friend to find out, so i ripped up the note. somehow it got to the guy anyway well he read it and showed it to his girlfriend/ my best friend. they are not mad at me but was i wrong, should i have kept the way i felt ot myself. HELP!!! i really dont mine and there friendship to end cause it means a lot to me as i dont have many friends anyway
2007-03-22 03:21:39 · 10 answers · asked by rebelpoet26 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It's not wrong to have a crush on your bestfriend's boyfriend (you can't really help your feelings), but it is wrong to try and take him away from her.
Go sit your best friend down and tell her that you have no intention of trying to steal him away from her. You just have a little crush on him and you value your friendship with her (and him) too much to do anything about it. Tell her you are happy for them and the crush is because you envy the good thing they have.
Hopefully all this would be the truth and you won't jeopardized your friendships.
2007-03-22 03:28:06 · answer #1 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would of let it out in the open cause i would hate to find out one of my friends kept me from that and then find out from someoe else and then there fly's the trust. Now the best thing to do is if they are happy together maybe keep your distance and don't go and try to break them up, if it doesn't work out for them thats fine it would be better if it was one of their wrongs then pointing the finger at you cause you tried to get in between. Just stay friends with both of them for now.
2007-03-22 10:41:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't help how you feel! It's better to have put it out in the open rather than keeping it all inside! At least nobody is hiding anything now! I'm sure everything will turn out fine between you and your friend! It's not like your hooking up with him or anything!
2007-03-22 10:25:22 · answer #3 · answered by helpandseek 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should have kept it to yourself. Now every time you see them, you will feel a little awkward. You can't help who you are attractive to, but its how you react on it. If he's your best friend's man, than put your feelings aside and be a real friend to her by not sleeping with him.
2007-03-22 10:28:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should keep it to yourself. The minute you speak something it is no longer a secret. You shouldn't speak things like that. It burdens the friendship.
2007-03-22 10:30:31 · answer #5 · answered by megan261980 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um yeah it is wrong. You should have enough respect for your friend not to even look at her boyfriend like that
2007-03-22 10:27:25 · answer #6 · answered by tiarawright2008 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok first off you wasnt wrong for expressing your feelings. you was wrong for expressing them to someone other than your bf. im pretty sure she would have kept it between the two of you. but hey, look at it this way. you gave her a compliment- she has good taste.
2007-03-22 10:30:00 · answer #7 · answered by Beauty & Brains 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What were you hoping to achieve by asking? If you can honestly answer that question then you have the answer to your question.
2007-03-22 10:28:55 · answer #8 · answered by Stefka 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yup.
2007-03-22 10:25:06 · answer #9 · answered by mikey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no,u are not wrong...u jus express yr feeling out,..smile and be yrself always
2007-03-22 10:27:31 · answer #10 · answered by gurlgurl 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋