If you really loved someone, the as you split up it turned to hate. Can that ever turn back to love again? Hate indicates there are still emotions right? You dont hate people who mean nothing to you. Dont people who split up and get back together go through this?
2007-03-22 03:15:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I truly love my husband but once i found out he was cheating on me while i was 7 months pregnant and then he abandoned me and the baby my love turned to true hate. I will never forgive him for what he has done and even though i hate him, i do also love him just as much because he is my one!
i do think that with a lot of work hate can turn back to love but once the trust is gone love will not be enough.
2007-03-22 03:42:11 · answer #1 · answered by I♥Karma 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes theres a thin line between love and hate. And it depends on the issue why the two of you split up. When two people split and get back together again,things will not be the same anymore, trust will be gone and yes the emotion will stay there, forgiven yes but forget will be very hard..
2007-03-22 10:36:56 · answer #2 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it can ever turn back to love. Things would never be the same and the hurt feelings and the scares of the break up will always be there, and even tho you think you can get over them you can't they are always lurking in the back of your mind and they will surface again/ Hate is a pretty strong word and a wasted emotion, I don't hate anyone all tho I do dislike a few people
2007-03-22 10:36:04 · answer #3 · answered by inmate3685 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's true that there is a thin line between love and hate unfortunately it's usually invisible and you don't even see it coming! Depending on why you broke up, what trust may have been lost, and how willing you are to leave the past in the past, it is possible to work things out. If anything look at it like this, you never really know somebody until your not with them anymore. You got a chance to look at his dark side. If your willing to work through it keep this saying in mind, if you can't except me at my worst you don't deserve me at my best.
Also remember that a man will only do what you let him get away with, if you let him know from day one, you ain't havin it he'll do one of two things.....he'll either up and leave or he'll change and either way ur better off!!!
Good luck with ur decision
2007-03-22 10:52:05 · answer #4 · answered by Mia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love someone you love the and that love transcends all other emotions. If you feel hate toward them, you really did not have true love in the fist place. Maybe something else like lust are whatever. To have true love, you do not hate them at any time.
2007-03-22 10:19:10 · answer #5 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is always a choice. If 2 people have that desire, they can make it happen. Not easy, but can be done.
It's all in one's attitude.
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2007-03-22 10:39:01 · answer #6 · answered by km 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate no one and you will be happy in your heart.
2007-03-22 10:18:26 · answer #7 · answered by mikey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋