fool-weak-stupid
whats everyones thoughts
2007-03-22 03:04:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are not the one with a problem,she is. She's a Stupid
S***. Why stay with her? Once a cheater, always a cheater.
2007-03-22 03:29:39 · answer #1 · answered by lizzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a 34-year old woman. I have cheated on my ex. He is a lovely man, never hurt a fly. But something must have been missing for me because I felt the need to seek solace in the arms of another man. I flirted when he was not around. I touched and I played. I might have not ****** but I sure came close. I can not see how it reflects on HIM - it was all me, me, me... 100% blame myself. I feel like I disrespected him and maybe a part of me wanted to hurt him. Children do bad things while knowing well they will be punished if caught. So I did, too, and I got caught and I surely got punished - he left me. I reached for that candy and cookies jar before dinner and I got smacked! It is up to you now to forgive her if she shows genuine remorse and give her another chance. If you catch her again - I'd say that's the end of the road. But I know I would give my partner a 2nd chance no matter what. To me, that's what love means. YOU CAN NOT BLAME YOURSELF, unless you abused or mistreated your wife in any way.
2007-03-22 10:15:07 · answer #2 · answered by ozkiska2love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if wifey cheated on you, then that makes her the fool, weak, and stupid. check her on that and let her know how you feel. remember you cant believe that whole 'once a cheater always a cheater' bull cause people can change. you cant just let her go like she a girlfriend. thats your wife. till death do you part. if she do it again then i support you in the divorce. hopefully she realizes what she got and how good she got it before its too late.
2007-03-22 10:12:25 · answer #3 · answered by Beauty & Brains 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you knew about it and didn't do anything then you'd be one of those, but if you henoestly didn't see it coming and then ended the relationship when you found out, then that makes you a man. Of course, if you have children, then being a man might mean working it out...
2007-03-22 10:08:47 · answer #4 · answered by tempyst 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women usually make sure their cheating is justified before they cheat. So, it could be either of those.
2007-03-22 10:09:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that does not make you weak or stupid at all.
It means that she is weak and stupid and disloyal for having betrayed you.
2007-03-25 20:31:13 · answer #6 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh no, it's her that's fool, stupid, and weak. she went to that direction and one day god will punish her for that.........its you who have a heart.
2007-03-22 10:21:41 · answer #7 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not anything bad.....she is...a cheat? A sinner...........do not blame yourself..it is her problem...you both need therapy or leave her..if you have children do eeverything you can to make it work first
2007-03-22 10:09:12 · answer #8 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, she is a fool, weak, and stupid.
2007-03-22 10:30:24 · answer #9 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is a s***, how is that your fault?
Except a bad choice for a wife?
2007-03-22 10:07:35 · answer #10 · answered by mikey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋