my friend has this huge crush on this boy, they flirt alot, and she really really really likes him....but whenever my friend isnt around he will start to flirt with me and he will hug me and everything, some people think we go out but we dont, and i dont want to do anything that will hert my best friend, what should i do??
2007-03-22 03:01:18 · 21 answers · asked by babi gurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
u don't say her directly, as she may be hurt,say her indirectly.
and say him that ur friend loves him so much &also warn him not to do that hear and after to any of the girls without the notice of her(ur friend),.
2007-03-29 23:50:40 · answer #1 · answered by marina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well
You gotta turn on a video camera and film him doing it
with out his knowing it , it would be wise to film it happening
more than once thoe , and then invite your best Friend over
for a sleep over and ask her just how good of Friends are
the two of you and once she lets you know that she feels
the same towards you as you do for her, well then play the
tape for her , she will most likely be upset so have a box
of tissues handy , but in the end you will be both better off.
And Friend ship is very important and truly hard to find
thees days , so good luck and I'm sure it will work out
just fine for the two of you.
2007-03-22 03:10:26 · answer #2 · answered by RONBO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he hug her too like he does you? Does he do that in front of you and hug you only when she is not around.If so, He likes you more but is afraid to say it. Hes probably nice to your friend to be near you. If you dont have feelings for him, ask him to stop next time he hugs you.
And besides, it may seem like forever, but you will have many bfs before you grad time. Relax and enjoy your youthful experiences in love and life.
I hope all your dreams come true.
2007-03-29 19:23:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont tell her, tell him. Tell him that she is your friend and you are respecting her feelings and that you dont want him hitting on you, even if she is not around. You can then tell her that he hits on you when she is gone and that you told him to stop. This way she can not get mad at you, or end up feeling hurt. IT is not fair for him to be leading you both on, and who ever else he hangs off of when you are not around. Hope this helps. Good luck!
2007-03-22 03:12:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hows about slap the guy n tell him 2 get a grip this is what happend with me n my best frend n we dont tlk ane mre! seriously stay away frm him she wil neva 4giv u n if u dnt wana lose her then STOP
2007-03-28 20:00:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way you would hurting your bf is by not telling her. she your best friend, im sure she would understand. plus it would hurt more to heat it coming from someone else other than you yourself. and the boy, put him in check. tell him you aint gonna allow that to happen cuz your girl like him and he knows it. tell him to skip rocks
2007-03-22 03:07:34 · answer #6 · answered by Beauty & Brains 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like him?
If you don't, tell her about it so that she doesn't get deceived, and keep yourself distant from him.
If you do, tell her that too. She'll understand sooner or later...
By the way, I wouldn't trust him, since he is flirting with both of you.
2007-03-29 22:24:30 · answer #7 · answered by Vida 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even though it may hurt her feelings, it's best to be honest and open her eyes to the true boy he is.
let her know that you are there for her and you just dont want to see him hurt her.
good luck.
2007-03-22 03:04:09 · answer #8 · answered by Kiri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should tell this boy your not interested in him and he's out of order because he must know your friend likes him. and you wont do anything to hurt your friend.
2007-03-29 22:48:42 · answer #9 · answered by RACHEL B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you don't tell her and she finds out by someone else then she will be hurt and then she will not be your friend anymore because she will think you were hideing it from her so go ahead and be honest with her before he breaks her heart.
2007-03-27 18:31:31 · answer #10 · answered by babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋