Girls now-a-days want to be treated like a princess, have their man fawn over them and treat them like spoiled brats, but when their man wants something in return, they don't want to do it for them. Guys and girls need different things to be happy. I'm at the gym and I hear these women complain about their husbands all the time, and these women don't work, their spoiled brats who are VERY well taken care of, and all they do is complain. What's the matter with the majority of women these days? Do guys treat them too well? Do we need to make them want more? I treat my girlfriend well, but make her want and things are good. I just realized this.
2007-03-22 02:57:09 · 17 answers · asked by KidBao 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Of the women I have as friends and ex's, age between 20 and 40, many different social standings, this has been true. Out of a couple dozen women, I'd say 20-22 of them are like this.
2007-03-22 03:03:36 · update #1
It's not just the girls at the gym either, that's like 5 of them.
2007-03-22 03:04:15 · update #2
ok, girls now-a-days that want equality, what does that mean? Split everything 50/50? Housework and all? maybe I'll post another question on that.
2007-03-22 03:05:47 · update #3
First of all, there is never a 50-50 relationship. With every relationship, there is a give and take. Some people take more in one area and give more in another. For some relationships, some people take more than give and in that aspect, the opposite happens where the other gives more. You have the right idea about a relationship where you need to keep the one that you are with wanting a bit whilst giving them some, maybe a bit more than satisfy but sometimes you can't help bu give it all because you are so in love. The thing is that it's not wrong to give all of your love to that person but it is wrong for that person to take advantage of that and even worst to complain after they've done so.
Not all "girls" like to be princesses. My huband calls me his princess or his queen but I don't take it literally. He treats me really well and do anything for me but I would never take that for granted and make him do outrageous things. My husband and I have each taken turns being the one that is the homemaker. These friends of yours, are they unemployed housewives or are they homemakers? The reason I ask becasue raising a family and being the one that takes care of the house and children is nothing to lump into the same thing as a housespouse. There is a great of things that needs to be done and on a scheduled basis for a homemaker. Besides, who doesn't like feeling like a queen or king for a day...the problem, again, is when they get used to it and take advantage of that and then come to expect it.
Anyway, best wishes and take care.
2007-03-22 04:35:28 · answer #1 · answered by mothergoose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the answer to that sounds more like that they're selfish. If you don't work hard for what you want or what you need, you'd be suprised how different I think the person would act. Plus, the maturity level might have something to do with it. If you have someone who's both selfish and immature, you have a lot going on then =( I've honestly worked hard for everything that I have, I'm greatful for things even if they're hand me downs which I do have such as clothes and furniture =)
2007-03-22 03:05:49 · answer #2 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my husband treated me like a princess I would love it. However, with me it is the other way around I spoil him, and get nothing in return (not a much of anything anyway)! I think that some women are to spoiled. There is nothing wrong with treating your other half that way, but it should be a two way street! I find it very unattractive, and annoying when woman are to spoiled and think that there shi* don't stink!
2007-03-22 03:20:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a stay at home wife and my husband treats me very well. I also treat him with respect and do my best to make him feel like the real man he is. I don't think it has to do with woman that don't work because of all the woman I know that don't work there husbands are treated like kings also. I think that some woman are bitches just like some men are assholes. I think that you need to find that person who fits what you are looking for. If you are looking for a spoiled brat then you will find her. Remember people only treat you the way you allow them to.
2007-03-22 03:08:13 · answer #4 · answered by gettingmarriedinnc 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Er.. It should be Women want to be treated like Empress. They control all decison making in the household while the Emperor (husband) stay out of the internal home affairs but concentrate in bring back money & gifts for her.
As for princess, every girl want a prince charming when she get all the care, attention n love shower on her? and via versa for males. Who do not wish to be treat well? It is how the person handle the relationship in the 1st place!
2007-03-22 03:48:27 · answer #5 · answered by TO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not all women. It's the women at the gym. The dumb bints who don't have jobs and pretend that doing chores aka being stay at home wifey is a job and it's not. These women are not feminists they are the exact opposite. They are stupid bints!
Now, my partner treats me very well, but I do treat him well in return because you now, I'm a feminist a 'girl now-a-days' who believes in equality. Don't judge all women because of a few dumb bints who don't even have jobs!
Uh yes, house work and all, obviously!
2007-03-22 03:03:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're not dating the right women. My wife is nothing like that. The better I treat her, the better she treats me. That's how a good relationship works.
2007-03-22 03:11:38 · answer #7 · answered by bugs280 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is very unfortunate for you. Personally, I think relationships should be 100% - 100%! I love to have my husband to treat me like a princess, but the gets treated like the king of this palace! That is the way it should be, I would hold out until you find a girl that does for you in return. (I will be honest though, it is much easier to do great and wonderful things for him, if he initiates by doing for me first!)
2007-03-22 03:06:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i feel the same way about men! I gave my husband everything love, affection, a home, children..he even had toys, quads, cars and then just one day he decided he didn't love me and left for a younger piece off azz,
so don't tell me about girls who want to be treated like princess when there are men out there that after all that was done will just s*it all over you and your family!
2007-03-22 03:48:43 · answer #9 · answered by I♥Karma 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop ears dropping into other people conversations.
Besides, generalizing is of ignorants. You are basing your theory on 5 gossiping women in a gym? Come'on!
I get treated like the princess that I am, and my bf gets the royal treatment in return. He is always handsomely compensated for his kindness and for being a gentleman.
Good luck
2007-03-22 03:29:35 · answer #10 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋