me and my fiance keep trying to have sex, and once i have an orgasm i cant stay wet any more and i always have an orgasm way before he cums. and it makes us argue we have been together a year now an dwe are getting marriend this summer and we want to be passionate with each other, but ths is a big barrior.
any advice would be greatly apprieciated
2007-03-22 02:54:32 · 16 answers · asked by brown eyed beauty 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Use lubricant, even before you have an orgasm. There is Intrigue by KY which is supposed to be the longest lasting on the market. Don't let this be an issue. It's so not important and easily remedied.
2007-03-22 02:59:39 · answer #1 · answered by Stephene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start off by having an orgasm right away(not with penetration, either oral or digital). The cool thing about being a woman is we can O over, and over, and over and over.....isn't life wonderful. After your first, you need to keep him away from the downtown area for a while. Let yourself recover. Do things to him (he wont mind) When you're ready, try intercourse. You should be very wet at this point. Your next orgasm should take a while longer. If you find you're still having trouble, try a good lubricant. Do NOT use that KY warming stuff....ouuuuuuuuuch
Good luck and remember, practice makes perfect :)
2007-03-22 03:49:19 · answer #2 · answered by oracleofohio 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm familiar with this one. Try and delay yours as long as possible. Try and get him to shorten his time if possible, maybe more oral for him before intercourse. Otherwise, try and finish him off that way. There is a possibility that you can learn to have multiples but it takes a while and you have to learn to relax and let it happen and he will have to help you with the moisture part, maybe with over the counter lube.
2007-03-22 02:59:54 · answer #3 · answered by Chloe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your body only makes so much lubrication. Once you do orgasm you body doesn't make anymore. You can buy KY or Astroglide to help you along.
2007-03-22 02:59:43 · answer #4 · answered by Ontario_Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some great answers here! =) but yes definetely get some over the counter lubricant to start with. =) good luck and keep on practising.
2007-03-22 05:26:48 · answer #5 · answered by BabyIR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try Petroleum jelly.
2007-03-22 11:24:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u start to dry up.. u can use lube or make him eat u out or do things to get u wet again.
2007-03-22 11:09:04 · answer #7 · answered by Mediwizard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they make lubricants you know. buy some. they are cheap and you can get flavored ones... making a big deal out of nothing!
2007-03-22 03:54:19 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My obgyn said that this is normal in most women and to use ky-jelly.
2007-03-22 03:11:42 · answer #9 · answered by tchwety40 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use a vaginal lubricant after you've had your orgasm.
2007-03-22 03:15:33 · answer #10 · answered by chicchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋