2007-03-22 02:39:12 · 8 answers · asked by kalz 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Im recently married and having sex for the first time..
2007-03-22 02:45:07 · update #1
It certainly isn't supposed to hurt. If it does, see your doctor; it may be a sign of something that needs treated medically. Of course, it could be you've just got a lousy lover...
2007-03-22 02:43:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean pains? Where specifically? I know that certain positions cause me an extreme amount of discomfort so I just stay away from them. In general though sex is not supposed to hurt. Talk to your doctor, you may have endometriosis.
2007-03-22 09:41:42 · answer #2 · answered by poohb2878 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe u don't relax enough, or maybe u're not wet enough, and then it can hurt. Maybe u should have more foreplay before the sex itself.
Tell your partner about the problem and ask him to be very gentle.
If that doesn't help u should see a doctor.
Hope everything works out well!
2007-03-22 09:46:08 · answer #3 · answered by carolina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may just need extra lubrication, try Astroglide I have to use it or it hurts, I do not think you should just let it hurt, your partner should be compassionate about it and willing to try things to help you enjoy it as well. It is sold by the condoms etc.
2007-03-22 19:07:02 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Coffee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the cause of the pain ?
Pain usually means a problem..
Find the cause....
Do you need some extra lube ?
2007-03-22 09:42:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i get that too sometimes,depends on the possition,stay way froms those or more genttle and talk to you doctor too,may be something serious or maybe not,
2007-03-22 09:45:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your other half to go slower. Try another position or not enough fore play?
2007-03-22 10:12:29 · answer #7 · answered by Passo L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you shouldn't. because i'm pretty sure it will get worse
2007-03-22 09:43:34 · answer #8 · answered by cutipie_m10 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋