My las period was on 12/6/06 and I am now 15 weeks pregnant I had sex with my bf on 12/19/06 he finished inside of me. I had sex with my friend on 12/23/06 he didn't finish inside of me, we had sex before he didn't finish inside and I never got pregnant and though I know in my heart is my bf's baby I still have that doubt. Can you guys help me! Don't judge me either I am not the only one who sleeps with two different guys around the same time!
2007-03-22 02:12:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
This is a difficult one.
Why I say this is because you slept with both of them just a couple days apart. It totally depends on when you were fertile. Sperm lives 3-5 days inside of you. Or longer depending on the fertile cervical mucus.
I'd say you are going to have to have a DNA or Paternity Test for this one. Pull out doesn't always work. Women get pregnant from that all the time.
I wish you well though and hope everything works out okay.
2007-03-22 02:19:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As close as those dates are I would say a dna test is the only way you would know for sure. I would guess your boyfriend cause it was 13 days after the first day of your period, but if you don't have a 28 day cycle then it could just a easily be your friend. Even if your friend didn't finish inside of you it is still possible to become pregnant.
2007-03-22 02:20:45 · answer #2 · answered by got all I need 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely want a dna test after delivery but you owe it to yourself and your bf to tell the truth. Please don't be one of those people who lets your bf get close to your child and fall in love with them, only to tell them sometime later, this baby may not be yours. It's better to be honest up front and to have them with you during the DNA test.
What you did was very irresponsible, but the most important thing is you change your ways and become responsible for your child.. no matter who the father is, you are the child's mother, and you owe it to this baby to clean up. The first order of business would be to come out and tell the truth. Good luck.
Remember, when you own up for your own actions, there is nothing anyone can say to hurt you anymore. You will have changed, so you can arm yourself with the knowlege that you are not like that anymore and they are talking about the old you. You need to work on that now because you are going to get lots of criticism for this in the near future.
2007-03-22 02:35:33 · answer #3 · answered by TrixyLoo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would more than likely say that your bf is your babies daddy. I have never been in this type of situation but if he finished inside of you and your friend didn't than he probably is your baby daddy. There is still that slight possibility but highly unlikely. Wait to have the baby and see who he or she looks like. If you still have doubts than get a dna test.
2007-03-22 02:21:17 · answer #4 · answered by Desiree A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow ummmmm ok well the one who finished inside of you girl after the baby is born go take a test and find out who the father is
2007-03-22 02:17:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most likely your boyfriend, but you may need to take a paternity test since sperm is present before he finishes his business. Your a good friend to do that for a friend.
2007-03-25 19:30:07 · answer #6 · answered by Chad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since it is so close together i am going to be honest, you may have to do an dna test when the baby is born. sorry sweetie!
2007-03-22 02:19:46 · answer #7 · answered by puppy love 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WTF! Don't judge you? you deserve it, you could have just messed up many lives and you dont seem to really care or have any remorse for it. Nice person you are. Just get a test or something done when the baby is born or you can see if they will do a test by an amnio if you want to.
2007-03-22 02:19:50 · answer #8 · answered by instilleddistress 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋