2007-03-22 02:06:08 · 24 answers · asked by jay or 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
what is unwholesome about sex, again?
2007-03-22 02:07:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Knowing someone is there for you and that you have someone to go home to and share with is an emotional boost. Sealing the deal with sex just heightens the emotions and confirms the the emotional attachment. Sex without the emotion is a physical release and may be fun but does not do much for mental health or emotional health. Having both the emotional uplift combined with sexual confirmation does a lot to ensure the length of a relationship
2007-03-22 09:13:48 · answer #2 · answered by Brent W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i guess you don't want to consider the sexual aspect because you feel bad about being attracted to men, as if it is a bad thing. that will be a problem for you in the future.
if you have little sexual desire, but enjoy a man's company, then that is another question. i guess you would just need to be really honest at the start of the relationship, and hope he feels in the same way, otherwise if expectations are different, than you're on to dodgy ground. good luck
2007-03-22 14:37:23 · answer #3 · answered by molly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply put, the right partner can and does meet those emotional needs, sex and sexuality isn't unwholesome but there are differences in simply satisfying lust and being able to connect with someone emotionally, it's just very hard to explain. To state that men don't have the capacity to make an emotional connection is simply wrong. Just because males do tend to deal differently with their emotions doesn't invalidate the fact that we do have them. Be open. Be honest. Talk. It's the lines of communication that get you what you need and enable you to give to others what they need as well.
2007-03-22 09:34:15 · answer #4 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First you have to be ready to be hurt if you are in love with this guy. Their emotional needs will be met if you let them speak their mind even if it hurts you. Be open minded and don't judge them if they tell you who they like and what they find attractive with another woman or even another man. Let them feel that they can tell you anything esp. things that will make you mad, jealous and really really hurt. There is a very narrow line though that if they are attracted to you, they will really want to have sex with you. And it might come to a point that in their honesty they can share this desire with you. You can of course maintain to be wholesome while accepting their views. Also, they might find it hard not to fall in love with you or at least be attracted to you sexually if you meet their emotional needs. Finally, if they cry...just let them...hug them when it really gets that bad and just be there for them without saying anything at all. They still believe in what is actualy a myth, Boys Don't Cry....
2007-03-22 10:09:31 · answer #5 · answered by a_sassy_girl_79 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Emotional needs of a man are in no way different from those of a woman, it just happens to be that gay men are not afraid to show this. The need of protection, love, and understanding. The need to know that there is someone who would always be there for you...
And not everything is sex related....
I hope i kinda answered your question
2007-03-22 09:12:08 · answer #6 · answered by BlueBoy 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I recently read a good book called the "Seven Love Languages". The book explains how we all have different ways of feeling good about uorselves. I learned that my husband and I are both the kind of Love Language where we want to be praised for our hard work. Not that we want to hear it all day, but we want to know what we do is appreciated. There are many different ways of wanting to be acknowledged and loved. You should really read this book.
2007-03-23 10:23:43 · answer #7 · answered by Pinklady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emotional needs as in some one to understand you? or emotional in the sex way? Either way you need someone you can trust, to be you're self with, and who will give you what you need but for that you must be willing to give as-well not just do the taking. Hope you find them.
2007-03-22 09:14:07 · answer #8 · answered by Pink 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Have them go to a Geisha house for a traditional tea cerimony.
It's NOT a sexual thing, but more of an emotional/ego thing. True Geishas DO NOT have sex with their clients, they only "infer" sexuality to them.
2007-03-22 10:02:13 · answer #9 · answered by DEATH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship, companionship, moral & emotional support, meaningful conversation, friendly discussion, exchange of knowledge.... all contribute to fill emotional needs if human contacts amongst men or women.
2007-03-22 09:14:48 · answer #10 · answered by MoiMoii 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First, by finding out more or less what his own emotional needs are. Then his communication with others becomes clearer. Might still have sex though!
2007-03-22 12:36:22 · answer #11 · answered by blackhole 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋