I'm a never married single by the way.
2007-03-22 02:00:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NOT if you don't let it~~~Been married to the same Man 29 years. It's called communication, If your partner seems to be losing sex appeal, SAY Something or Change "Yourself". If you say nothing then nothing is what you'll get! be open and honest share what works to please you,but also ask what the spouse might be missing ,try new things. Don't be a dead log. We have three grown Children that was a challenge ,but never a hindrance. Just Don't allow it to became a problem and you'll do just fine.
2007-03-22 02:32:58 · answer #1 · answered by K F 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex is like pizza - even bad sex is pretty darn good, and it's never, ever "boring" in and of itself. But it does tend to get less frequent after a few years. Keeping up that (important) aspect of the relationship takes hard work and communication.
These are gross generalizations, but most men can go from dead asleep to "in the mood" in a matter of seconds. Most women, on the other hand, take a good while longer to get warmed up. And since men (and women) a lot of times get . . . not exactly lazy, but complacent, after a long time together, they tend to forget how different the other's arousal mechanisms are.
Regardless, marriage is about friendship, respect and passion - not sex. If you have those other things, the sex will follow.
2007-03-22 09:12:54 · answer #2 · answered by Humberto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! good sex never gets boring.I have been married for 12 years and there is nothing boring about our sex!!! as long as you keep an open mind and are not afraid to try new things how can you get bored? Yes sexiness does make a difference. Good Luck.
2007-03-22 09:10:36 · answer #3 · answered by ....~K.C.~.... 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex gets boring if you let it get boring...You should always think of new ideas and spice things up a little...But just because sex gets boring doesn't mean you stop loving that person...As long as the love is still there and you don't stick to a certain routine im sure the sex will be great!!!
2007-03-22 09:03:13 · answer #4 · answered by Alejandra2008 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you are still young,immature,and shallow. You marry because you love someone UNCONDITIONALLY! Sex should never become boring because you LOVE the person and LOVE makes sex 2000 times better. You'll understand one day. But if you get bored, a good wife will join you in an effort to "spice things up". Never cheat! It will haunt you forever!
2007-03-22 09:10:45 · answer #5 · answered by wondermom 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes it can get boring....and then you make some effort to spice things up....I remember feeling like getting undressed, into bed and then doing it was so boring...what happened to the build up? to the peeling off of clothes? etc....but we worked our way thru that hurdle and through many more....and my married sex is by far WAY better than any I ever had while single....hands down.
2007-03-22 09:14:19 · answer #6 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are 3 types of sex in a marriage.
There is the newly wed sex, where you have sex all the time all over the house.
Then there is bedroom sex, where you only have sex in the bedroom after the kids go to sleep.
Then there is hallway sex, where you pass each other in the hallway, say F*** Y** and keep on walking....
2007-03-22 09:54:24 · answer #7 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sex gets as boring as you let it get. To avoid boredom you have to talk to each other about what you want and what you'd like to try. And then do it.
What do you mean by sexiness? Sexy is 95% attitude and 5% appearance.
2007-03-22 10:23:43 · answer #8 · answered by bugs280 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attraction to another is a chemical reaction, those chemicals wear off after a couple years, then you stuck with true love. You really need to work at staying in love.
Do a web search on seven year itch, it's not just a movie.
2007-03-22 09:10:44 · answer #9 · answered by handy G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi secret a,
since ur are single unmarried u donot know the secret of marriage. like the hunger of tummy sex hunger never satiates. it increases day by day. sexiness doesnot make any difference. u shuold have the vital organs in tact to enjoy the sex. enjoy the life!
2007-03-22 09:06:15 · answer #10 · answered by amarnath 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋