And if so, how long after the divorce? What made you decide to do so? How did it turn out?
This is a question about human nature so anyone who wants to say "Move on" need not answer.
2007-03-22 00:56:11 · 8 answers · asked by PuckDog 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Also, what led to the first divorce?
2007-03-22 01:06:16 · update #1
Sometimes, couples get divorced prematurely. That is, instead of working on the marriage, they bail out of it. Once apart, they realize their mistake and come back together. It's not about human nature, it's about you and your ex husband making a decision about your future. If you still love one another, it's worth the risk to remarry. Only this time, you must learn to solve your problems, instead of running away from them.
2007-03-22 01:57:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many of the problems you may be facing could be just the tip of the iceberg on what is really happening in your marriage. I dont mean to scare you but many problems when they either first show up or if they keep reoccurring could be just whats showing from a larger problem that either you or your spouse cannot even see. One of the only things you can do to help is to talk honestly and openly with each other in the marriage. If things become more serious more serious options need to be looked at as possibilities. I have a blog that has more information on some of what I've been writing about. If you feel like checking it out I would completly suggest it. Read here https://tr.im/BK6eP
Love is a choice that is made everyday when you wake up and every night when you go to sleep. Some days you may not feel the original feeling but love isnt a feeling or an emotion. Its an action a verb. Falling out of love may just mean you need to spice things up a little or that you were never in love in the first place. Don't just get out of a marriage just because you don't think you like the person anymore.
2016-07-18 17:02:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello....I've never been married, so I've never given an ex-husband a second chance. I have, however given ex-boyfriends second chances. I decided to do so because I still felt love for them in my heart & soul. It always turned out the same way it did the first time........failure.
I have seen situations though, where people get divorced and then realize they love each other more than ever before and turn around and get remarried several years down the road......I wish you the best of luck!!!!
2007-03-22 01:03:05 · answer #3 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I gave my ex a second chance, which was questionable judgment in the first place. My oldest son is not his but he was who he called "Daddy". My ex informed me that if we got back together my son would have to go live with his own father. I left right then and there and never looked back. We were in the middle of our divorce. We've been divorced for 11 years!!! Best thing I ever did.
2007-03-22 01:41:42 · answer #4 · answered by DeadHelen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband and I married at age 21 and we divorces about 1 kid and 2 years later. We were apart about 3 years while we were still in contact because of our daughter needless to say we decided to try again because we both still had feeling for on e another. We started as friends and worked from there it was like getting to know one another all over again. That's been 5 years and two more kids together and things couldn't be better. i think we were to young and didn't know what we were doing.
2007-03-22 05:17:17 · answer #5 · answered by candy kane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's been about 18-19 years since my first husband and I divorced.....and we are reunited and planning to marry sometime in the future. We are doing it because we both spent the years in between then and now loving and missing each other. So far it's been wonderful. We've been back together and cohabiting for going on 3 years............longer than our first marriage lasted.
2007-03-22 01:01:39 · answer #6 · answered by TJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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This is probably the most important part. With texting, you can stop and think about what you want to say to your ex at each step of the way. Instead of reacting emotionally, you can take your time, figure out the right thing to say (I’ll give you most of it), and be strategic with your ex without saying something that you’ll regret.
2016-04-30 16:11:08 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u realise that u have made mistakes in the past and on reconsideration find that ur ex was not that wrong, u can marry him again.
2007-03-22 02:10:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋