I just realized I'm bi-sexual and I don't want to be. I can't stop these urges towards men. I have tryed to just stop thinking about it, but the thoughts keep coming back. Any help?
2007-03-22 00:28:43 · 19 answers · asked by uirrid 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I man can't be bi. Once a dude get's violated by another man-HE'S GAY. not bi, not confused--GAY I TELL YOU.
2007-03-22 00:33:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
Unfortuently there is nothing you can do to stop being a bi-sexual.
It is within you, being a lesbian, gay or bi isnt something you can control by popping a magic pill...
You will have to learn to accept it over time. Even though it may be weird to you there isnt anything wrong with it, no matter what some assholes will tell you.
I'm personally a bi-sexual and i used to hate it too, but over time i learnt to accept it.
Theres no cure, sorry.
2007-03-22 07:35:11 · answer #2 · answered by Nick 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Why would you want to change who you are?!? I guess I can understand wanting to change the fact that your bi- just don't give into the temptation... have these thoughts- but don't play in to them, ya know? There is nothing wrong with keeping a fantasy a fantasy... its better that way sometimes.
2007-03-22 11:39:13 · answer #3 · answered by ItalianPrincess 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im guessing the most of this reason is fear is it not well im also guessing you dont want trouble family issues etc well then all you have to do (if ur bi) is sleep with girls and keep desires towards men a secret and if you get really drunk oneday you might know how good it can get
2007-03-22 09:53:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you're can't cure it because it's not an illness. hard part is that chances are pretty good that you're actually gay but haven't realized/ admitted that yet.. it's a pretty cool life once you get comfortable with yourself, this takes some people a lot of years of denial... do yourself a favor and start building a supportive community, find someone to talk with aside from the computer...
2007-03-22 08:16:57 · answer #5 · answered by tomi27410 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If urges towards men are what you're longing for then you are a gay man who doesn't mind being with women. Enjoy your diversity. Even straight guys get tired of the same ole thing all the time. You got the best of both worlds so enjoy yourself.
2007-03-22 07:34:33 · answer #6 · answered by ericbryce2 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
In 1890 it was thought of as a medical condition in search for a cure. 110 years later, they found they were wrong! It is not a medical condition, it is completely normal. I am certain in the future it will be completely acceptable. I only wish it to happen in my life time
2007-03-22 08:44:59 · answer #7 · answered by Pink 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The 'cure' is an open mind, sweetheart. Chill out. Why not just embrace your attraction to men? It will make your life a lot more enjoyable in the longterm.
2007-03-22 08:18:51 · answer #8 · answered by hannah 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You don't.
You are born your sexuality. Many medical studies have shown that trying to change can only harm you mentally. Don't try unless you want to hate yourself even more, just try to learn to accept yourself.
2007-03-22 09:13:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go to the websites below for information. Do not let people brow beat you into believing that you cannot change if you want to. They simply want to maintain the fantasy that people are "born that way" to rationalize and legitimize their own sexual predilections.
2007-03-22 07:57:46 · answer #10 · answered by Biz Iz 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
ummm you cant cure it. and if you keep dwelling on it negetively, you'll be very unhappy. Just accept who you are. It's ok to be bi, theres lots of people like that....Hey, think of it this way, you have a better chance of getting a date on saturday night LOL
2007-03-22 07:34:06 · answer #11 · answered by BlondBoy 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋