so if you were a bi-sexual female....... but you have not had relations with a female at all..........and you were intrested in exploring that part of your sexuality...... how would you know if a female was also bi or lesbian and how would you know if they were intrested in you?............ whats the best way to ask a female with out having to say it straight out?
2007-03-22 00:24:00 · 7 answers · asked by shyla 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If you really want to be sure, you should go to a gay bar...
No way to tell for sure otherwise...
Although we do have our "radar" (also known as "gaydar") that, for me, has never been wrong yet...
2007-03-22 00:43:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a really hard question. Being a bi female it seems that I have only had relations with my best friends (which is a bad thing sometimes!) but I would just try to go to gay bars that way you don't have to sort through all the other questions being at a "straight" bar wondering if there are any bi females that you can talk to. This way if you are at gay bar you know that 99% of the woman in that bar are into woman. Also, try dating sites, etc. They have woman for woman sections as well.
2007-03-22 11:42:54 · answer #2 · answered by ItalianPrincess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to follow your instincts. You know when someone is hitting on you, work with it. If that fails, just ask them. I would not recommend this in a straight bar, you could get yourself in some trouble. There are signals that you put out there for someone to recognize. Flirt a little, you will work it out.
2007-03-22 07:43:20 · answer #3 · answered by stormzsecret 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, if you just want the sexual experience you should simply put an ad in the paper or online saying so.......be straightforward about it, if your not into being friends first, shopping, all that crap, say so........I did this years ago and got alot of responses, went on many 'meet & greets' and found the one I wanted to sleep with in a couple of weeks.....we ended up staying together for nearly 8 years.........and it all started with the truth.....that I was horny! lol
good luck!
2007-03-22 08:38:17 · answer #4 · answered by D~~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mm, not sure though.. coz at the moment nobody has asked me yet :p
2007-03-22 07:26:35 · answer #5 · answered by pee_bag 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a gay bar...??
2007-03-22 07:27:04 · answer #6 · answered by sonialynnl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wtf?
2007-03-22 07:27:20 · answer #7 · answered by jay f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋