Ok,I'm a 19 year old girl and i have always liked guys and for a while like days or weeks i have been wanting to be bisexual and the last 1 or 2 nights I have wonderd if i could be happy with a guy and tonight i even wondered if i could be happy with a guy and i cryed a bit. I like having sex with guys but it dont feel special but when i think of rubing my pu55y agaisnt another girls pu55y it seems special to me and( i actual did do this but it didnt mean any thing to me then ,but that was when i was in grade 12 and i had a problem with my sex drive ,i wasnt able to get aroused or turned on untill some thing after i graderated)I have never crushed on agirl i think i might of cryed abit before cause i wantes to be bisexual. I wondered tonight how can i be happy with a guy if i wants to be bi so badly but hey this problely wont stop me form being happy with a guy. I'm not a vergan.
p's a long time ago like shorty after i graderated i wanted to be bi but it didnt mean alot .
2007-03-21 22:45:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
just incase u dont know this from reading this,I have only crushed on guys.
2007-03-21 22:47:16 · update #1
My dear girl, you cannot just become bi... it's something you are born with...
If you really have doubts, the only way you can find out is actually try it...
But beware, life as a lesbian (as I see it, when one is bi, one is hetero when one has hetero relationship but in a lesbian relationship one is as gay as the next gay) isn't easy...
Good luck and I hope you find what you are looking for!
2007-03-21 23:05:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a graderate? And a vergan? And you want to choose your orientation? First of all, we can't really make that choice, we are born gay, bi or hetero. So first things first, try to date members of both sexes... figure out who gives you happiness. Trust me, you will have the answers for yourself.
2007-03-22 06:10:11 · answer #2 · answered by Gaymes Last Orchestra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You graduated with that grammar???????
You are still young and experimenting with your sexuality. Some of us don't know where our head is at until we're older. Stop worrying about labeling yourself. Meet people and find out who you're comfortable with. Be careful - practice safer sex. When you meet the person who makes you feel good about yourself, you'll know you care. You can't choose to be bi or straight or gay. You just are. Travel your path-- in your own time - and enjoy your life. You'll figure it all out when you're ready.
2007-03-26 22:29:20 · answer #3 · answered by reme_1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suspect you are not being pleasured well, by the boyfriend. Perhaps you are curious bout girls, because you know you are not geting the plesure you expect, from a man,, be open with the man, and explore your sexuallity with him,,ask him what he would like you to do,, and ask him to do things for you, also ask about his sexual fantasies,,,and the honesty will help you find happiness behind closed doors. You can always look for a wman, for leasure,,but,,you seem clear, you want pleasure with a man.,,Good luck!
2007-03-29 21:52:51 · answer #4 · answered by Steve C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well in the first place being bi or gay or whatever...its not something you choose!!!! you can only embrace it by being who and what you are!!!!you have to know when you are bi you are bi for life you cant be les one day and the next day ur straight again
2007-03-22 05:54:57 · answer #5 · answered by (,'')Sweet guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r soo kool!! i admire you, ur not afraid of anything!!! bi is both guys and girls so u r kool... you can be happy with both even if you just do it for fun not for long term love. but u r sooo kool!!
2007-03-22 06:08:27 · answer #6 · answered by gothic girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't want to be bi. SERIOUSLY NOW!!! You are not bi. You just need to find the right guy.
2007-03-27 00:35:48 · answer #7 · answered by fagwankers 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you've gotta come clean and be honest with yourself. you can't just become bi as you like or feel like it.. or even force yourself to be one. either you're one or you're not. you can try hanging out with a girl and see how it feels to be with them.
2007-03-22 06:11:48 · answer #8 · answered by pee_bag 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not les for sure. You are probably bi-curious.
2007-03-29 23:29:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋