I have 5 kids and my dude acts like a kid at times to and we get into to all the time I tried I fightin with him. I don't get it every time I am fighting him every time he rapes me, And he tells me because I want have sex with him that's the reason why he takes it. We just got into a 2am, and I'm tried I think the last time he raped me was monday and he tried yesterday but I was too sick. But he has never raped me around my kids. And we don't argue around my kids. He's not the father of any of my kids but this one I'm pregnant.
2007-03-21 22:18:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
First of all, any bleeding or unexpected discharge during pregnancy needs to be investigated by a doctor, especially if you are assaulted, so log off and get yourself to a doctor straight away.
Second of all - GET OUT OF THERE. This guy is your boyfriend?? What is wrong with you?? What he is doing is AGAINST THE LAW.
He is a creep and a bully - what sort of "man" rapes a pregnant women anyway? Are you listening to yourself? "But he has never raped me around my kids"... so this makes it okay?
You think he'll stop at you? If you have daughters THEY ARE IN DANGER.
Stop making excuses - WAKE UP for your own safety and the safety of your CHILDREN get yourself out of there and to a friend or a relative or even a refuge/shelter, and then go to the police station and get violence/restraining order out against him, and press charges for sexual assault.
Get him behind bars where he belongs so he won't do this to some poor other woman because if you just run away, he'll find someone else to bully and terrorise.
2007-03-21 22:55:41 · answer #1 · answered by SydneyMum101 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My answer for the third time! Her boyfriend is only attempting to help; you will desire to be extremely pleased with him! Alot of stripling boys does no longer pass to that length to make their lady chum experience greater advantageous! Oh, and it appears that evidently which you're a troll. in case you heavily think of that rape is humorous then i'm hoping you ling a protracted, terrible existence in which you go through fairly and then have a protracted painful dying.
2016-10-01 07:49:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel for you but why would you even consider staying with a guy who rapes you, never mind mind one who does it when you are pregnant? do you honestly think this guy is going to be a good father and role model? and what about your other kids, they may not see it but kids are smart and they work things out. and im sorry to say but at 15 weeks you can still miscarry and your already spotting, you need to see a doctor. you already know the answer to your question.
2007-03-21 23:28:36 · answer #3 · answered by Şơƥɦɨȩ'ȿ ♡Μυɱ˗Μυɱ♡ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Are u in love with this boyfriend of urs? doesnt seem so!
2) Do u seriously want to live a life like the one u presently living?
3) What are ur plans for ur kids?
4) Have u considered having a better future with a proper husband?
2007-03-21 22:29:48 · answer #4 · answered by choilein 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
woah. what the hell. reality check. ditch this guy- NOW-.I'm sooo furious right now. Why would you stay with someone that's constantly fighting with you and of course raping you. don't give me any "I love him" excuse. If he loved you or had any self respect or respect for you he wouldn't be doing this. and if you had any respect for your children, including the one that's not born yet and yourself, you would have left his sorry a$$ a long time ago! Eventually your children are going to catch on and then it'll be too late!
You need to leave him and if he continues to harass you, you need to get a restraining order against him. I'm not even joking.
For the sake of you, your children that are born, and your unborn child, you need to open your eyes and look at what's going on and take action. --before it's too late--
2007-03-21 22:44:34 · answer #5 · answered by Kiri 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What in the hell are you doing with someone who treats you like that???? You think your kids dont know what the hell is going on??? BULL, I had to grow up around all that **** and finally last week I had the nerve to tell my mother all the stuff I seen and still have nigthmares about at the age of 26 and all she said was "Sorry I didnt realize you seen that stuff". I dont believe in welfare but in your case. Go and apply for it and kick that bastard out. If not for yourself but for your kids!
2007-03-21 22:31:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There's no excuse for a boyfriend (or anyone for that matter) raping you! No, means no and you shouldn't have you children exposed to that environment, whether the see it or not! If you're pregnant and spotting do to this 'unwarranted' intercourse I would see local law enforcement and your doctor! Do what's right no only for yourself, but your kids as well!
2007-03-21 22:22:47 · answer #7 · answered by EveryDaysAMardiGras 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Foreal? Its a good thing he doesnt rape you around your babies. Maybe you should pretend to be too sick to be raped more often since that seems to work out well for you.
2007-03-25 19:34:52 · answer #8 · answered by Chad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to get out of that relationship for your own safety and the safety of your kids.
I don't know where you live, but there are bound to be some support groups etc near you.
Get what ever help you can and get away from him.
2007-03-21 22:28:42 · answer #9 · answered by DopeyGirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Woman, call the cops! Why do you allow yourself to be raped? I can see it if it happened once, but you're letting him back in to do it to you again? Get him put into jail and be done with it!
2007-03-21 22:39:21 · answer #10 · answered by C J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋