I'd like to try and meet some new people but it hasnt been going very well.
I'm a 22 year old male from Ohio and I think im attractive but meeting new people has always been one of my weaknesses.
First off I tried meeting people off the interent that went bad all the girls i've tried talking to off the interent just give me the run around and i've given up on that all together.
Tonight I went out to a bar / dance club with some friends. There were some really pretty girls out there but I felt nervous about approaching them and it's usualy so loud in the bars with the music that it would be dificult to try and start a conversation . Does anyone know any good ice breakers to make things seem not so aquard? Has anyone pulled it off?
I wish just once that a girl would approach me and try to up start a conversation but it hasn't happend yet. It would make my day if a girl would go out of her way to talk to me.
Your awnsers are greatly aprreciated. Thanks
2007-03-21 21:30:24 · 8 answers · asked by Eric B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Thanks for your great question..
i think girls will be more attractive to u for your bravery, courage,and capability of telling the actual truth in front of whole world..
While talking to female u must gather enough confidence..
You may practice and plan about the style of expressing your ideas and thoughts prior to facing them..
Although sometimes "real time" speech or style of talking has the upper hand, but it works..
You must watch serials,romantic drammas and movies in TV or cd/vcd/dvd's to follow the common style of social interference/ talks ...
May u get over from your shyness,hesitence,anxiety and social phobiatic problems ...
and enjoy the power and beauty of your youth.
hope this will help.
good luck.
2007-03-21 21:55:49 · answer #1 · answered by Manik 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's too dangerous check out being a bit extroverted putting out @ locations with alot of folks make peers via paintings and college undoubtedly.I understand how you think I reside in a position that has peaked rents for the period of the summer time so We leave and it sucks no longer having peers for that point.U sound like a well character so it should not be that rough so that you can make a buddy or 2.Just be your self and check out to not come on too powerful.You're certain to make peers.Just ensure they do not take knowledge of you.
2016-09-05 11:45:16 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girl approaching you thing keep dreaming unless she is into you. You don't need anything special to talk about. Politely ask for her name name and tell her something like you couldn't help but notice her and a dance with you is the least she can do so you can get over your self.
2007-03-28 04:43:39 · answer #3 · answered by Aila126 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you go to a bar, get pretty buzzed because alchohol can really make you open up and say things you would not say when your sober. That should take the shyness out of you real quick.
2007-03-27 16:04:35 · answer #4 · answered by luciousgreeneyedlady 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi Eric go & make friends dont waste your time by dreaming for some one .
Dont think you are weak u think & so you felt nervous.
go out full of confidence & make friends . They all of people are ready to accept you .
2007-03-21 21:57:41 · answer #5 · answered by fungrooup 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
List your profile at YoBling
http://www.yobling.com
2007-03-21 22:18:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to bar
2007-03-28 19:51:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try www.myyearbook.com
2007-03-29 14:30:21 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋