I have this so called best friend at school She plays with her new best friend she is evil and such a b*tch They have the same blood type Her whole family has the critical brain like her they were natured to be friends I hate my best friend She is the tricky type of clever She tries to act like someone she is not She shows other people that she is very nice but she is so rude and selfish to me Once a girl she is very nice to everyone but eventually I am liking her she told me to sit with her group of friends in French Then my so called friend glared at me like she was jealous my so called Best friend's other friend backstabs me as well When I am looking at the teacher and listening to her she blames me for NOTHING She scolds at me and says why r u looking @ my books? Then I had an angry face at her My so called friend ditches me at lunch she persuades me to do things i dont wanna do I can't defend myself and I am the innocent and naive type. I can't even hurt a fly.
2007-03-21 21:21:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't know what to do! Please help! I am so nice to others and I can't even say one bad thing to anyone. My parents scold at me and I burst into tears. I am torn apart. my life is hell. I told the co ordinator and then my so called friend told the co ordinator that I am mean to her. I was so p*ssed. She doesn't treat me like a friend, she leaves me out, but when she doesnt have any1 to talk 2, she comes to me! can you believe that trickiness? backstabber. Once i was talking to a girl, she was talking to her as well, then she was like, STOP ASHNA, CANT U SEE THAT I AM TALKING TO SOMEONE!? I was left out. she says to me to go somewhere else when she's talking to someone in private. Friends tell each other everything. She is that type of girl. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO. Help! I am not strong and brave to go through this. I cant defend myself and stop this. HELP! :'(
2007-03-21 21:28:40 · update #1
I don't know what to do! Please help! I am so nice to others and I can't even say one bad thing to anyone. My parents scold at me and I burst into tears. I am torn apart. my life is hell. I told the co ordinator and then my so called friend told the co ordinator that I am mean to her. I was so p*ssed. She doesn't treat me like a friend, she leaves me out, but when she doesnt have any1 to talk 2, she comes to me! can you believe that trickiness? backstabber. Once i was talking to a girl, she was talking to her as well, then she was like, STOP ASHNA, CANT U SEE THAT I AM TALKING TO SOMEONE!? I was left out. she says to me to go somewhere else when she's talking to someone in private. Friends tell each other everything. She is that type of girl. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO. Help! I am not strong and brave to go through this. I cant defend myself and stop this. HELP! :'(
2007-03-21 21:28:44 · update #2
simple dear,ditch her find a better friend who makes you happy.She ain't the only gal in your school.
2007-03-21 21:29:27 · answer #1 · answered by sexy bunny! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to slowly withdraw yourself from her grasp.
Slowly start making friends with other people and stop spending time with her. If you do this suddenly it will only cause her to retaliate which will only make your life worse.
Always be nice to her to her face and behind her back, don't give anyone else reason to think that you are the cause of the problem.
Don't stick in there thinking that this is just a phase she is going through because she is a teenager. People like this never change. It is a powertrip for her to push you around because deep down she is really insecure and probably likes to try to control you and your emotions because she has no control over her own self.
2007-03-21 22:03:18 · answer #2 · answered by miss jane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I been through that. I'm the sweetheart type, it's hard for me to tell off someone knowing their feelings might get hurt. Here's what you can do:
1. Cut her loose-It's gonna hurt, but she need to realized what actions costed her.
2. Pray-She might be confused now about her peers, and pray for yourself, and your enemies, too
I did those two things, and after the school year was over, my so called friend popped up on my front door the next day after last day of school. She knew what she did was wrong, and made it up to me. It took awhile to forget all of that, but I forgave her. We make mistakes all the time, and it's important that you forgive.
2007-03-22 02:21:22 · answer #3 · answered by ~Nellie Nell~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hope these may help:
1. Be calm.
2. Stay nice and friendly.
3. Pray for your friend and for yourself.
4. Tell her you love her as a friend and would want her to
remain as one.
5. If nothing changes, let go of your friend she does not
deserve your friendship. Don't treat her as an enemy, pray
for her instead and make friend to someone else who
deserves it.
2007-03-21 22:52:54 · answer #4 · answered by Speed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heya im sorry to say this but i fink you just need to leave her go! if ur such a nice person you will have lots of other mates so go off with them! thers no point in holding back and waitin around for someone who doesn't treat you right! dont bother with those two faced people coz at the end of the day what goes around comes around so she'll get it bk in her face and want you bk! good luck luff yhoo xxx
2007-03-21 22:49:30 · answer #5 · answered by xXkizXx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently she's hit that period of time where all she wants to be is "cool" and whatever her idea of that may be, you aren't it. Just don't take her crap. If she snubs you again just leave! Say, "I'm not taking this from you anymore" and if she feels bad she'll apologize. If she's to stuck up to realize her mistake then she's not worth your time. Find some real friends. I know it's easier said than done, but it's just gonna get worse.
2007-03-21 21:33:57 · answer #6 · answered by Roo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear i strongly suggest that you back up from this so called friend ,because a real friend would not treat you like that. however , when you back form her still treat her nice and with kindness, but just don't Kick it with her like you were.hope this is helpful.
2007-03-21 21:32:23 · answer #7 · answered by mr talk about it 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what u wrote was hard 2 understand but i get the jist of wat you are saying. basically this chick is pissing u off and u cant stand her- u have to vent on yahoo asner thats how upset she is making u. dont let her upset u any further just AVOID her altogheter and make new freinds. once ur anger cools from these incidetns, at lesat you dont have to worry about her inflicting further worry and anger on u..
2007-03-21 21:33:47 · answer #8 · answered by lady26 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her and get a new friend....like me
2007-03-21 21:25:28 · answer #9 · answered by gaf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's retarded... get a new friend
2007-03-21 21:40:42 · answer #10 · answered by nutterbuttersoymilk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋