We had a physical relationship for more than 5 years before her marrriage . She got married with other good person. but after 3 years of her marriage (she has one child too) she calls me and says she cant live without me and want to make love with me. what to do ? I am unmarried.
2007-03-21 20:37:16 · 22 answers · asked by gaidena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
so do what woman says - have sex with her
2007-03-21 20:39:42 · answer #1 · answered by jacky 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Walk away. Nothing is worse than having a pissed off husband knocking on your door and face it, if she's calling you after 3 years of marriage and a child, eventually she'll treat you the same way she's treating her husband. Keep your dignity and go find a good woman you can trust will not be calling her exes when you're at work or out of town.
2007-03-22 03:44:15 · answer #2 · answered by Amethyst92476 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She's at a stale point in her marriage. Trust me, I know. She is sick of playing house and wants some fantasy sex which might be great for you (and her) at the time, until she decides that she can't go on cheating on her husband and child. Then she will ditch you right when you realize you are madly in love with her. Or... she will leave her hubby for you, and three years after you are together, she will reach a stale point and call some other dude for sex. You decide.
2007-03-22 03:50:10 · answer #3 · answered by wawa 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dude, that is a train wreck waiting to happen. Do you want to be right in the middle of it?
She is bent on ruining all she and her child could have in a family, and will pull anyone into that with her. It has nothing to do with you except you are handy. If not you, she'll find someone else to drag into that terrible situation.
2007-03-22 03:50:34 · answer #4 · answered by fromorto12 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honestly, if she's willing to cheat on her husband with you... there's nothing stopping her from cheating on you once the "honeymoon phase" is over.
I'm all for real love, but you also have to respect the sanctity in which is supposed to come with the commitment.
2007-03-22 03:41:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Please stay away from her.Don't ever pick her calls or see her.I did like her and in massive mess. Please she wont realise anything now. You must avoid her and atay away. If she has a problem with her husband let her settle with ther husband. Dont get involve. Sont be the cause for a family to break up
2007-03-22 04:52:57 · answer #6 · answered by Larisha 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
STAY AWAY AND TELL HER NO!!!
If you cross that line you will feel like the housebreaker she wants you to be!
I would go to her home and in front of her tell her husband whats she up to, so he has a direct understanding of who she is!
then get away from her with all due haste!
2007-03-22 03:47:36 · answer #7 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If u r not interested...........then dont
U wl only mess up the her and ur life also...
Bcoz then she may call after u get married also which u may not like at that moment.......
Think bfore u take a step
2007-03-22 03:44:04 · answer #8 · answered by Vns 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How would you feel if you had a wife, and she did this to you? Leave the woman alone. Tell her that she took vows, and if she is unhappy she should seek marriage counseling.
2007-03-22 03:43:40 · answer #9 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do you honestly believe her? Don't fall into the trap where you cannot escape any more. If you are wise, you should treat her as a friend only. Its your body and you have a conscious who will suffer.
2007-03-22 03:44:26 · answer #10 · answered by Ashley 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
KEEP OFF. How do you know that when she hooks up with you she won't think of him. Marriage is sacred you don't want to get a curse.
2007-03-22 03:41:00 · answer #11 · answered by Drew 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋