we didn't talk to other people at all? Because i think the main reason why life is hard is because of the other people we communicate with. You know drama and other stuff. What do you think?
2007-03-21 20:30:02 · 13 answers · asked by youngmec2008 3 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Yes and No. There are people that really know how to make me feel good and lift my spirits, but there are also those that really drain me and put a complete damper on things.
2007-03-21 20:33:31 · answer #1 · answered by Bite Me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not say there is anything "bad" in communication itself. It is neutral, but the way we use language and communicate, this is what creates problems/happiness etc. etc. etc.
I personally think there are big, sorry HUGE bunches of people who just keep on chatting, talking about all meaningless stuff. I have noticed that this rubbishes and messes up my brain and thoughts!
The communication nowadays is so poor. There is no real substance in it. And the common problem is that we are truly bad at expressing ourselves or something else through language. Life is much more complicated than we are aware of, most of us don't realize how everything in this life is linked, there is SO MUCH WE DON'T KNOW! (again this is my humble opinion based on personal experience and lot of information gathered from "wise" books, such as Brian Weiss: -Messages from the masters- etc.) So PLUS to that, that we are bad at using language correctly, we are also beginners at knowing the truth about life and so are spreading wrong information all around us and confuse many people in their hearts and also ourselves.
That's just a part of the whole thing. As everything influences everything else, language is influenced by other things, that cause some people to suffer and some to feel joy. The expression of emotions is an easier concept, very easy to understand correctly. We immediately see and feel those emotions of others (through language) and if they are negative, we feel often bad being in their company ..... ..... .....
Hopefully I made myself clear. Again we are using language here. And of course this is just to give you ideas. It's also how we handle the info we receive.
But beacuse there is so much to life, it would take more than 1000000000 00000000000000000000000000 000000000000000000000 00000000000000000000 00000000000000000 000000000000000000 000.....etc.etc.etc. pages to write this all down, that's why the wise, much knowing people are mostly silent.
Oh yeah. To some people, like me, it is more importnat to be around positive people, than to receive the correct information, because ... Agh leave it.. I'm confusing myself now..forgot the point.
Let's just enjoy the rays of warm sun, the beautiful flowers outside and be with those, who make us happy and to whom we give happiness too. We will learn much from that too.
2007-03-22 04:26:16 · answer #2 · answered by Chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication can't possibly be discontinued since it is human nature to discover, invent and find new answers.
Divorce did not work in this era. There are still those attempting to justify its purpose however society cannot afford the cost of divorce and it will quickly change back to that of the family structure.
People need people.
2007-03-22 03:42:03 · answer #3 · answered by lightwayvez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Words are definitely the root of most evils. Drama always comes down to words.. he said, she said... . But on the other hand it would probably be near impossible to survive with out them. Without some other form of communication that we could easily adapt to we would all be lost in a silent world.
2007-03-22 03:41:49 · answer #4 · answered by firedup 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While it may be easier, it would be a lot less satisfying. I think communication is the essence of humanity: we are social creatures. We desire the attention from others and often times that attention is talking to one another.
2007-03-22 15:59:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We realized that all that we have achieved is our destiny and nothing is going to be taken by us.
Success and failure is determined by only us and nobody.
Content and satisfied with what ever we have.
No problems in life comes without a reason so face it with a smile.
Hate nobody love your enemy because you are happy.
2007-03-22 04:47:38 · answer #6 · answered by pradeep 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wouldn't life be a lot easier if people we're honest with each other instead of flip flopping around the truth and sending hidden messages. just be yourself, and support other people in being themselves and have people around you who support you in being yourself.
2007-03-22 04:12:51 · answer #7 · answered by lifeoutsidethecircle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's one reason my dream is to have a home in the mountains away from everyone else..I wonder too, if I'd get colds and flu's?
2007-03-22 03:34:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that we talk to other people that makes life hard, but it is our tendency to compare ourselves with others that makes life hard.
2007-03-22 05:52:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life would be much easier if...
someone hadn't created so much cathair.
(please don't tell the cat that i was here)
2007-03-24 08:48:10 · answer #10 · answered by RockstarR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋