If you have a friendship in which you are the basic caretaker of the other person, and intimately involved in each others lives for a long period of time, and with no warning the other person shuts you out, but still carries the expectation that you will continue to be the caretaker, should you fade quietly into the background out of their lives and continue to take care of them, or should you air all their dirty laundry, as they are doing with yours, and go out with a bang?
2007-03-21 19:03:36 · 11 answers · asked by thilitha_tipton 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If this perosn shut you out, then by all means cut him/her off cold turkey. Don't go causing a scene or do something that you will regret later on down the road. But definitley don;t keep being the caretaker.
2007-03-21 22:54:19 · answer #1 · answered by mjfluffy420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a situation that tough, it would almost be impossible to be the bigger person. You are kind enough to ask for advice which makes me think you will make the right decision. Which makes you a bigger person than most.
2007-03-22 02:07:46 · answer #2 · answered by Debi in LA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing beats going out with a bang than trying to make sense with someone who doesn't even want to communicate. Go ahead... Make your day!
2007-03-22 02:08:25 · answer #3 · answered by X in Question 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they no longer rely on you for eveerything, then continue to fade out. They have to learn to do things for themselves at some point.
2007-03-22 02:08:23 · answer #4 · answered by Mummabear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WOULD be nice to them.THEN move your main stuff out in a storage or to moms house. THEN i would just throw a big party 4 him and then tell every one in the party just want a a ss hol-e he really is.
2007-03-22 02:17:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shoot the other person in the throat.
Seriously, fade away.
2007-03-22 02:07:13 · answer #6 · answered by vinny_the_hack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with a bang..
2007-03-22 02:06:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In that situation, fade away.
2007-03-22 02:06:03 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on you style, I guess. However, I can't believe you put all that into one sentence!
2007-03-22 02:18:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shoot yourself in the throat
2007-03-22 02:05:06 · answer #10 · answered by yeah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋