I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 17. We have been dating for only 12 days. He asked me to prom already and we're going together. I'm worried about his mom though. She won't let him drive out here alone and is making my parents bring me to their house before prom. She's always talking to my mom on the phone and asking weird questions. They have decided to meet up this weekend. My mom thinks that I shouldnt be with him because of her. And truthfully I'm kind of worried that she will ruin our relationship. I don't want to tell him this cuz I know it will hurt him. But i dont know what to do.
2007-03-21 19:00:57 · 9 answers · asked by Keyleigh 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I agree with your mom. If his mother is this much involved this quick, she may have issues with controlling his life. That becomes a big deal when you get older. You want a guy that loves and respects his mother, but one that will defend you first. Never date or marry a guy that defends his mother before you...even when you're wrong!
2007-03-21 19:06:59 · answer #1 · answered by Silver B 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately you used too many pronouns so I have no idea who you think will ruin your relationship...your mom or the boy's mom. The other thing you aren't very clear about is what sort of weird questions. But based on what you told us I would say that your mom isn't too worried about it because she is letting you see this guy for prom so I say go and have a good time and stop worrying so much about the drama the parent's are engaging in right now. Respect your parent's requests, but go and have a good time. Remember you are dating the guy....not his family so lets see how this guy is on his own merits....Good Luck!
2007-03-21 19:15:16 · answer #2 · answered by chcman74 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just tell him how you feel.....
BTW-to the others..there is nothing wrong with the age difference..It is only 3 years..it is like telling two adults (for example..me being 25 and my husband being 33) that they could not be together because of the age difference.
2007-03-21 20:02:34 · answer #3 · answered by Misty H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a big age difference between 14 and 17. I think you should break it off.
2007-03-21 19:07:28 · answer #4 · answered by So_many_questions 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well he will be 18 soon so its best to break it off. It could work when he's 18 but if the parents don't agree on things it could get ugly and he could go to jail. That would not be cool
2007-03-21 19:05:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First I wouldnt let my 14yr old date a 17 yr old!!
But since im not the parent I would say just talk to him about it he might understand
2007-03-21 19:08:56 · answer #6 · answered by Oops! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why not have them meet BEFORE the prom, that way it wont be akward for everyone. i mean im sure youre gona be nervous enough going to a HS prom for the 1st time. just set up a dinner date, at either of your two's homes or at a restraunt. or [kinda weird] but like a mini golf date or something. idk im just trying to help..
have fun at prom :-]
2007-03-21 20:06:56 · answer #7 · answered by chelsღ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like this guy stay with him, but if his mom is trying to interfere or is completely aggravating you then try talking to him about it first and then decide. if he don't understand then break up with him. i don't understand why his mom won't let him drive to your house to pick you up, that's weird.
2007-03-21 19:24:38 · answer #8 · answered by mrs garfield 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MURDER!!!!
jk jk, .....you should tell him, he should understand. ;D
2007-03-21 19:05:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋