After a marriage of four years, I have called my best friend up this morning and my ex-wife answered the phone. I hung up and have fumed all day. I know it's not healthy for me to be upset by this, as she is single now, and so is he, and both are adults who are allowed to make their own decisions, but I still feel betrayed, and aside from this relationship, have had a track record of bad relationships. I want to break out of that rut, but need to know where best to find out how.
2007-03-21 18:38:03 · 7 answers · asked by Lost Boy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There are some books that does'nt cost very much,The Mastery of Love,by Don Miguel Ruiz, You Can Heal Your life, by Louise L.Hay. The Law Of Attraction by Esther And Jerry Hicks. I wish you love and happiness.....
2007-03-21 19:20:54 · answer #1 · answered by Vannili 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you were betrayed and that wasn't a friend to begin with. it takes allot of prayer to get rid of all the deadly emotions.Have faith and you'll see the change. How can your ex and your best friend do this to you? Don't tell me he was your best man when you got married? Well that's good you didn't have kids with this girl because it would have been worst for you. If they play like that you know it's not going to work out for them she did it to you and she will do it to him with his other friend. You don't need people like that in your life stay away from him and her and you did the right hing by hanging up. There's another thing you can do act as if nothing ever happened and talk to him but at a distance and ask him to hang out I bet she will hate it she will feel worthless
you never know he might just be having fun.
There's always better girls out there and take this for experience you sure wont do what you did and what you didn't do. That will be a big bonus for your next relationship and having no children with her was a big sign it wasn't meant to be.
Good luck.
2007-03-21 18:59:23 · answer #2 · answered by amores 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I certainly have been suggested for asking for prayer for different persons or perhaps suggested once I have been given ultimate answer. I suggested 2 people men because of the fact they have been very verbally abusive with my question and sexually perverted. i'm a married woman and might havenone of that. I additionally took the liberty of blocking off those people to boot. I certainly have discovered % in basic terms the battles to combat which you're wiling to lose. p.c.. and decide your battles carefully. No while to stand up for your self and while to backtrack. additionally I do supply thumbs all the way down to intend or sacrastic solutions, however the checklist button I in basic terms use while the guy is blanatnly abusive and that i've got wrote my the explanation why. it incredibly is a relgion and spirituality communicate board the place people come to learn and advance and ask questions that they could no longer be waiting to ask or experience gentle asking every physique else. there is sufficient harm, meanness and negativity interior the international devoid of including to this to the R7S communicate board. sure i'm a christian. yet that would not recommend I certainly have the splendid to be more suitable or act like i'm greater advantageous than every physique else. we are all called to love and encourage oneanother and that i remind that to my nephew and nieces while they attempt to boot. people are reporting people sure yet it incredibly is only a temeporary fix revenge is sweet yet frogivness is even sweeter we would desire to prefer for those online who're adversarial and reporting others because of the fact they did no longer like what they wrote. I say it incredibly is a temprary fix because of the fact it provides a feeling of satifcation that the guy have been given back on the guy who worte the question yet would not fix the coronary heart subject. Peace this became a pretty submit thank you e4g
2016-10-01 07:42:37 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a tough one to go through, Can't really say what you should do but can offer some advice about what you shouldn't do, don't react to what others are doing...don't be what others want you to be, try and find yourself by doing what you want and what makes you satisfied and content...during such a process you will find those who will be willing to help you obtain your goals and become a happier person...I've been down that dark road too, and there can still be light on the other side for you....I ended a 20+ year marriage for simular reason while we were married and it wasn't an easy thing to get over...now, five years later, I couldn't be happier...i wish you the same.
2007-03-21 18:47:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well as for your best friend, now you know who is not your best friend, and before getting into another relationship work on yourself what is it about your personality that keeps attracting those type of people? What happened in your past relationship that you did that you can change to make the next one better? set up some standards for yourself about what kind of person you want in your life and when you do that dont settle for anything less than those standards.
2007-03-21 22:49:26 · answer #5 · answered by Renee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should feel angry...You have good reason...
Counseling is a waste of time and money...
Best way to mend a broken heart is with a new love...
Move on and find a new love...
2007-03-21 18:47:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prayer will do it and much faith in God!
2007-03-22 15:16:47 · answer #7 · answered by anastasia s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋