I've always just wanted to be understood...people judge me so easily. Most act as if they comprehend but quickly disregard my thoughts.
I think it would make a big difference but till then...
2007-03-21 18:12:20 · 10 answers · asked by betterthankyourluckystarx 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
If you want people to react positiviely to you .
You gotta say what they wanna hear
You gotta behave in a way appropriate to them.
Or
You can control em .
2007-03-21 18:20:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've asked that question about most people I have come across in my life and found that it seems the older a person gets the more one become humble in keeping family,or something they have worked hard at felt they deserved . As with most youth ,they don't have a sense of actually what it is that they want. Sure they have the idea of what they might want out of life ,but its the amibition and drive that keep them going to obtain that goal. Most fizzle out in the mid 20's and by the 30's unless you have a steady career or a family and married. You will find that you are setting in stone who and what type of personality you are becomming. Women usually want stability and family. Not necessarily marriage for some.
Those are completely two different lifestyles all together.
Men I have no clue what it is they want or seek. I see them at various ages and careers and still don't get a inlking of what does matter to a man.
2007-03-21 18:28:50 · answer #2 · answered by gardenia89102 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you get older with wisdom you will stop caring so much about what people think of you and more about leaving your thumb print on the things that are important to you.
My family including my kids moved away and I am here by my self to deal with life. Sometimes it's better to be miss understood than be totally understood and others not want to deal with your personality because they live haphazard lives. In any case just let the judging go and be the best person you can be to you and yours.
2007-03-21 18:18:18 · answer #3 · answered by Kill_Me_Now! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you just haven't found the right people yet, but there out there. its common for people, especially in todays age, to quickly disregard others thoughts and feelings, our society simply moves too fast. Keep looking though, everyone has someone who understands them :)
2007-03-21 18:23:33 · answer #4 · answered by guiltridddenshamefilled 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like a house on the beach so i could live my life with a relaxing scenes around me and the noise of the beach & waves when i go to sleep. WOW that would be great!!
2007-03-21 18:24:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand. I have the same problem. It is easier to just withdraw from people like that. They are not worth it.
2007-03-21 18:22:56 · answer #6 · answered by ginaforu5448 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Till then, buddy
Do NOT React.
2007-03-21 18:26:56 · answer #7 · answered by kzpc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a man
2007-03-21 18:20:16 · answer #8 · answered by Mercedes s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Peace...
2007-03-21 18:20:14 · answer #9 · answered by infiniteson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boobs and a switchblade, maybee some chicken mcnuggets
2007-03-21 18:49:53 · answer #10 · answered by Wolfman the MFER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋