I AM A VERY JELOUS PERSON.WHAT SHOULD I DO TO SHOW HER I LOVE HER AND WANT HER TO STAY MARRIED TO ME??PLEASE HELP ME????
2007-03-21 17:33:18 · 17 answers · asked by abner225 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Chances are, this isn't the first display of jealousy by you...correct? My guess is, you have been cheated on in past relationship(s) and you are taking it out on her. She doesn't deserve to have to deal with other peoples mistakes from your past. It is your job to deal with your issues. Talk to her honestly about where you think this jealousy comes from, and tell her you are going to get help and that keeping your marriage together is your priority.
I'm sorry that people hurt you in the past, but the next time you try to take it out on your wife, just remind yourself that it has nothing to do with her.... You need to decide whether or not you trust her...
2007-03-21 17:53:25 · answer #1 · answered by katiebug 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there are a few reasons to why someone would be very jealous.
1. They are insecure
2. they are cheaters themselves and think that their partner is just like them
3. Their partner isn't taking care of business at home and isn't treating them the way they should be to make them secure in the relationship. *most common
4. Their partner cheated before (verbally, mentally or physically)
5. Both 3 and 4.
6. all of the above
Leave the person that makes you feel insecure or get therapy if it's not their fault.
2007-03-21 19:26:27 · answer #2 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's alright to be jealous . . . just don't accuse her of things unless you're sure . . . as long as you haven't done this too many times before . . . do something romantic like reanimating your first date . . . or a picnic . . . writing her a beautiful note and leaving it on her pillow with a nice flower (not a rose) and get her a pet . . . just research romantic dining places in your town and take her there . . . you have so much making up to do that it's probably going to be something every week or even every day . . . for a while . . .
2007-03-21 17:38:45 · answer #3 · answered by BlueLantern 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost see a therapist. That out of control jealousy will lose you many women. To try to restore what you broke will take hard work and no harassing her. Let her have her space and make those appointments to help you,. She may perhaps see a change if your actually working at it but please don't throw it in her face your doing this for her. It's you that's broken, not her and any thing you say will be just browny points.
2007-03-21 17:38:31 · answer #4 · answered by Kill_Me_Now! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no rely in case you place on your wedding ceremony ring or not the action which you're approximately to make is a great mistake. Ring or no ring cheating continues to be undesirable. What might you experience in the adventure that your spouse cheated on you? Sounds undesirable? nicely it truly is... besides have you ever requested your self in case you like her? reason in case you do, you will not even think of of cheating on her.
2016-12-19 11:12:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man,dont acusse never your partner of cheating if u arent completely sure cause u are telling her that you dont trust her.
just tell your wife that u are a jealous person ,that u are just scared of loosing her,and that yiu were an *** for not trusting her,and since you love her so much you are gonna stop being so jealous
2007-03-21 17:38:55 · answer #6 · answered by Honey Bunny ;] 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women are often told that if a man is cheating, they get very suspicious. If your wife has heard that, odds are she is holding you suspect, especially if your issue is NOT her issue.
Don't show her you love her. Get some therapy and prove you love her.
Live well~
2007-03-21 17:41:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up and appreciate what you have. Jealousy is your worst enemy, if you continue to accuse her of cheating she might one day just say, the hell with this, if he is accusing me of cheating anyway, I might as well DO IT. Tell her you will work on your jealousy issues and REALLY do it. Counseling for both of you is recommended, good luck.
2007-03-21 17:37:57 · answer #8 · answered by Isabella's Mommy Expecting #2 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
before you can get her to take you back. you need to deal with
the fact that you have some issues that you need to address.
that the first thing, only then can you try to save your marrige
but until you get the help you need. nothing going to change
until you change you.
2007-03-21 18:14:26 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you have Proof of the cheating???
If not, you need to get counseling as to why you feel so insecure.
2007-03-21 18:06:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋