Me and my ex just recently became friends again... And she keeps mentioning about this guy we met in our class.. its not the first time she tells me how cool he is... She keeps saying how he's set a good impression of her and that she's happy to have him as a friend... and that its not like she's attracted to him but that she is just happy to have a friend like him.
Now I dont mind her talking about other guys.. but I feel like something is up with this.. Is she really just treating me like a regular friend or is testing to see my reactions?? Like if I'll get jelouse or something... I just dont understand why she would mention him so many times. Whats behind this psychollogy.
2007-03-21 17:19:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
maybe its a little of both. call her on it, make fun of her for it. But know how it's coming out and mean it. If your jealous, say you're jealous. If you're not, say you're not. 2 very good calls though, she might like him and want to test your reactions, you know how fickle some chicks can be, especially younger.
2007-03-21 17:27:32 · answer #1 · answered by Snap J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, look it goes this way:
1-she wants to make you jealous
2-she's really forgotten about you and has already moved on and you need to just be her friend.
Don't try to see what's not really there, maybe you're hoping she's doing this cause she wants you back. Reality hurts but not as much as dreaming.
However, maybe she does wants you back and doesn't know how to tell you or make you to ask her out. Just play along and if she wants you she'll get tired and tell you flat out if not then just try to not get your hopes up anyway.good luck
2007-03-21 17:23:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still like her and you know she still likes you then well I'd say tell her that it bothers you that she's always talking about this guy
2007-03-21 17:22:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
trying to make you jealous and it is working!
2007-03-21 17:25:02 · answer #4 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trying to tellyou something.
your reason?
2007-03-21 17:31:26 · answer #5 · answered by laportama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋