Me and my ex just recently became friends again... And she keeps mentioning about this guy we met in our class.. its not the first time she tells me how cool he is... She keeps saying how he's set a good impression of her and that she's happy to have him as a friend... and that its not like she's attracted to him but that she is just happy to have a friend like him.
Now I dont mind her talking about other guys.. but I feel like something is up with this.. Is she really just treating me like a regular friend or is testing to see my reactions?? Like if I'll get jelouse or something... I just dont understand why she would mention him so many times. Whats behind this psychollogy.
2007-03-21 17:19:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Dude, I do not know your girlfriend so I cannot say. You need to take care of number one, that's you. What do you really want out of this "friendship" with the ex? The sooner you define the relationship the better for you.
If you wanna get hurt just go with the flow but if you really like her and you want to give the relationship a shot, have a candid chat with her in order to define the relationship.
If it does not work out in your favour, then just bounce; painful in the short term but so much better in the long term.
2007-03-21 17:25:41 · answer #1 · answered by Taharqa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Joe Im a female, so when a girl talks a lot about a guy, it means she's is interested in him. she's beating around the bush and playing games with you. For 1 a female is most attracted to a guys personality and a confident attitude in himself. If that guy has those qualities she might be sharing it with you so you can either be confident in yourself or simply to make you jealous. BTW I also tried to be a friend to my ex but it never worked out. Its unhealthy for you...please avoid the drama for what's to come. Good Luck.
2007-03-21 17:30:52 · answer #2 · answered by mamimelissa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would this bother you so much if it were a girl she was talking about? She says the guy is just a friend noone she is interested in. Seems to me you may still have some feelings for her that you have to resolve.
2007-03-21 17:53:41 · answer #3 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is trying to make you jealous. But it sounds like you are, sometimes exes cannot be friends. See if you did this to her, she would not talk to you. It would break her little heart.
2007-03-21 17:22:20 · answer #4 · answered by StevieMo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ehm, i think she trying to make u jealous or perhaps she still have a deep feeling about that guy. never mind, as long as u know how to handel it.
2007-03-21 17:33:33 · answer #5 · answered by EJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It either means that they have a SERIOUS STUTTERING problem, OR that their vocabulary of words is SERIOUSLY challenged, OR THAT THEY HAVE THIS "SO-AND-SO" ON THE MIND, ON THE BRain, on their hand, ontheir mouth, and any other available body part! YEAH!! THEY'RE STUCK ON STUPID...duh, duh and triple duhhh
2007-03-21 17:24:43 · answer #6 · answered by crazynays 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Making u jelous & he wants u to lov u!! carefull!!
2007-03-21 17:32:36 · answer #7 · answered by cutie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can simply talk abt another girl to see her reaction.
2007-03-21 17:27:33 · answer #8 · answered by unicorn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋