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I had *key word *HAD* a normal goin, good sexlife for awhile and then we had 2 children. Now its seems like I only get it once a month, and when I do try to get some, it seems like I am asking for a favor. I am always the one that has to approach her even when it comes to a hug, kiss,or even making Love. She is from an asian background. As far as technique not a problem, I make it a goal to make her climax. I know she isnt cheating on me but man I am confused on what I should do to approach this situation before I am in my 50s and my package is out of warranty and service

2007-03-21 16:58:41 · 5 answers · asked by J5/Dozaimo/Pandalvr/Junk Yard Josh 2 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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Dude, I am sitting here thinking of what I could say to you and after a few minutes let me say that the problem may "keyword" MAY not be with her. Now, I don't know what the problem is first hand, but I do know that women want to be romanced. They want to know in a very OUTWARD way that you care deeply for them. And understand that you cannot LOVE your way up to her with the express desire of having sex. It has to be a WAY OF LIFE.
But let me ask you a question: Have you talked with her about this? Communication is the key. You will never know what the problem is until you sit down with her and ask her.
Another question: Is she taking any different kinds of medication. Some meds depress the sex drive. But again, good communication will get to the bottom of this. Take time to talk. Ancient Chinese secret: Talking with your wife is the best aphrodisiac.

2007-03-21 17:09:50 · answer #1 · answered by brevboy 2 · 0 0

Please take my advice on this one, because I am in the exact same place as your wife. When taking care of two kids, cleaning house, cooking, and blah blah blah, by the end of the day I personally do not want ANYONE to even touch me, at all. Your wife is tired and has too much on her mind. Trust me, this is not a sex issue, it is a mental issue. She has too much to worry about and sex is not on her mind right now. But there is hope. Give this a try. Send the kids to grandma's house or whoever for at least half the day. Clean the whole house for your wife. You don't have to do a perfect job, but make it look like you really tried. Send her a way shopping or whatever so she will be surprised that you helped her out so much, and I am sure you will get some action. Good luck.

2007-03-21 17:08:23 · answer #2 · answered by snowangel_az 4 · 0 0

if yall love eachother, then you need to have a long talk...come on, you know the answer, go tell her what youre feeling and sit her down and SHOOOOWWWW her what youre really feeling :)

2007-03-21 17:05:19 · answer #3 · answered by ThatGirl 1 · 0 0

You need to have a long talk with her and explain what you
expect from her if she expects the marriage to continue..

2007-03-21 17:02:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Look, u just need to say that sex is more in for us.

2007-03-21 17:04:30 · answer #5 · answered by Brittany💖 2 · 0 0

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