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feels the need to stand uncomfortably close to you as they are speaking?

2007-03-21 16:49:17 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music Polls & Surveys

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Yes, and there are reasons why that happens. Body Language is interesting.

2007-03-21 16:52:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

This is cultural. In UK I notice people stand quite far apart, Americans tend to stand closer. In India noses almost touch they stand so close and in Japan a little too far apart...

2007-03-21 16:52:05 · answer #2 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 0 0

The Close Talker!

Yes. I hate that! Some people don't have a self-awareness about personal space. It's annoying while it's happening, but funny when you tell people about it later.

2007-03-21 16:51:53 · answer #3 · answered by Brntte3078 4 · 1 0

Yes. I have a really well-developed comfort zone, so I hate it when people get too close. Sometimes I've even backed up and they've then stepped forward to maintain the same distance.

2007-03-21 16:52:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

No really that bugs the crap out of me!!!!! I dont like anyone standing in my space. I made the mistake of telling the people i live wit hthis and for a week straight they were giving me panic attaks b/c they would ALL stand around me and touch me at the same time. dont worry I got them all back!

2007-03-21 16:55:21 · answer #5 · answered by kilrblue 3 · 0 0

some cultures consider a sign of respect, others a sign of disrespect, so i try to keep that in mind

if i'm not sure of their intent then:

if i feel uncomfortable i put my arms across my front and glance back and forth from their feet to their eyes

even using a polite expression, that 'trick' usually works

when they step back i smile and relax my body language

2007-03-21 17:00:06 · answer #6 · answered by fiver 3 · 0 0

Puts me in mind of a few (male) teachers I had in high school *shudders*. I had a professor like that last semester who stood too close and was always complimenting my clothes or jewelry and I dropped his class. People like that are creeps!

2007-03-21 16:52:59 · answer #7 · answered by Cat Loves Her Sabres 6 · 0 0

yes, i asked a question kind of similar to this a while ago

"violating you personal bubble"

its terribly annoying, i dont know why people do it,
also when they make too much eye contact with you,

it feels very uncomfortable

its like they are sucking the life and all the energy out of your personal bubble and breatheing it back into their ugly bubble

2007-03-21 17:00:55 · answer #8 · answered by LostMyMind 3 · 0 0

YES, and I hate it! I take a step back each time they step forward....if they keep on, I'll put my hand up or something as a hint. If they don't get the hint, I just tell them they're invading my space.

2007-03-21 16:52:40 · answer #9 · answered by Dodger's mom 3 · 1 0

Most of the time when someone does this it's because they do not want you to be able to look into their eyes while talking. Psychology.

2007-03-21 16:52:29 · answer #10 · answered by aintnobeans 3 · 0 0

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