I'm pathetic, heh.
I'm a girl, and i get along better with girls because they usually talk my ear off, and i can just listen and add a few things here and there such as, "uh huh, yeah, ok....well i think-". But with guys, i don't really get along with because most men are quiet and scared of me. :-P......I guess i scare them because i'm tall, and they think i'm pretty *which i think i'm just average looking* and i LOOK smart and studious. When all i am is just quiet.
How can i deal with this?...i don't have a clue how to talk with boys because i'm not much of a talker, i'm responder. What should i do?
2007-03-21 16:30:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It's also very awkward talking to me. I'm sort of a timid, awkward person to talk to.
2007-03-21 16:36:07 · update #1
im sort of the same way. however, im comfortable with the silence. im 16 now, once i got into high school, learned to be more comfortable with my personality...what great friends i have...
im quiet yet pugnacious =P
2007-03-21 16:42:23 · answer #1 · answered by cognition 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start talking, wat else man? u can start wif v simple things to talk about, engage in an interactive conversation more than just a one-person-talk-and-e-other-listen conversation.
let me teach u, u can talk about a movie that u have recently watched, or ask them wat movies they've watched, n if it's nice. how's sch/life/work? or any specific part in ur life tat e both of u have sth in common, such as in irritating teacher/fren in sch? n so on, with tat, u can then learn to b a great conversationalist. nv b afraid of speaking out, to speak e truth, nothin kinda irritates me more than e second type of conversation, what kind of communication is tat man? it's just telling. so go on gal! i'll support u.
p/s: this kind of thing has nothin to do wif gender
2007-03-21 23:38:53 · answer #2 · answered by kai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you're not pathetic, everyone has their own paths of thought and yours is no worse than any other. even if it is less compatable with the 'good guy who listens', but growth doesn't happen to the perfectally grown. anyway, just be you and you'll go far.
PS
I think you just gave me an insight to another girl I know, Thanks.
2007-03-22 00:43:10 · answer #3 · answered by Snap J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes a little mystery can be good...
2007-03-21 23:37:24 · answer #4 · answered by Chris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋