one partner loves the other more?
2007-03-21 16:13:43 · 34 answers · asked by Veruca Salt 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
that's a generalization that is generally true....in my relationships it turns out that I am generally the more loving partner...but as the say it isn't the smartest thing to do ...generalize that is
2007-03-21 16:18:03 · answer #1 · answered by chiefof nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, talk about a can of worms...
Okay, here is my take. Although love is difficult to quantify objectively, I think it is difficult for any couple to say that they love each other EXACTLY the same. And I think it is really a problem when you start to dwell on the issue because you can get into sort of a Janet Jackson mentality (i.e. "What have you done for me lately?")
My wife and I just had discussion...prompted by an off-handed remark that I had made in another answer that maybe she loved me "more" despite my faults. In retrospect, I suppose it was my clumsy attempt to say that she was very loving and very giving.
What I recently learned about myself is that I've been very selfish...that I had a much greater capacity to love than I was giving her. I hope that I've fixed that now, but I am a work in progress. Does she love me more? I can't focus on that...my focus is on being a better husband and father...hopefully good enough so that neither one of us entertains those thoughts.
2007-03-21 16:41:37 · answer #2 · answered by Carl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not in every relationship, but it does happen due to a number of reasons. One partner may have more maturity than the other and be more generous.
2007-03-21 16:17:05 · answer #3 · answered by M N 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Agreed,
2007-03-21 16:20:19 · answer #4 · answered by Lolitta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not every one.If you are in a relationship like you probably don't notice it's everyone on the outside looking in that knows.
2007-03-21 16:21:08 · answer #5 · answered by MISS K.I.A. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if they love the other person more, but there is always one who's more involved. Wait! Maybe that's because they love more than the other . . .
2007-03-21 16:17:25 · answer #6 · answered by Brntte3078 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do and I also believe that this person alternates throughout the years.
For instance, at this point in time, my husband loves me more than I love him. This changes from time to time....
2007-03-21 18:51:19 · answer #7 · answered by Fuzzy Wuzzy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be true depending on how the relationship was formed and evolves.
2007-03-21 16:23:43 · answer #8 · answered by Kenner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever try cutting an apple exactly in half...
It's impossible...
However slight.....
One is always a bit larger...
and the other a bit smaller..
Even though they look the same...
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2007-03-21 16:18:33 · answer #9 · answered by yahoo 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
One is usually more committed. Hate to say that, but I think some people see it as "forever" while others just think "for awhile."
2007-03-21 16:24:52 · answer #10 · answered by janhangger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋