2007-03-21 16:13:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
b discerning, if it's some loser saying it, i'd say it's just him who's jealous. if it's someone tat u think is true to u, i'd acknowledged tat as though his style of presentation may b wrong, but nonetheless still listen to it patiently. if it's sth tat i may REALLY have done wrong, just take it humbly. however, if it's sth unjustified, i'd shoot back with reason n examples y i think he's wrong. a violent-return-attack, i know, but for all u know, it's all about doing believing in urself, n fightin for urself.
2007-03-21 16:19:26 · answer #1 · answered by kai 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on what the criticism is about, and who it is coming from. Also, whether or not the criticism is in good-manner. If it's something important that should be taken into consideration, then I think that you should react in a way that is positive, because the person is trying to help. However, if it is negative criticism, then simply ignore it.
2007-03-21 23:21:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First I evaluate it... is it true or untrue?
Then I evaluate the character of the person that was critical (and often attempt to discredit them)
Then I either alter my behavior or hide it more regularly
If I feel criticised on an ongoing basis, I either rebel (but rebellion tends to be self-destructive) or I try to remove myself from the source of criticism.
In my opinion, criticism isn't the best form of motivation.
Live well~
2007-03-21 23:21:25 · answer #3 · answered by Jenny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By remembering it does not matter what they said but who said it. If the criticism comes from a person I admire then I examine the circumstances very carefully and raise the standard.
If some Dick or Harry says it then I don't even raise an eyebrow.
2007-03-22 00:37:42 · answer #4 · answered by Freddy F 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I just figure that person has a problem and is trying to make themselves feel better by putting someone else down.
If it was someone that cares for me they wouldn't give me "harsh criticism".
2007-03-21 23:20:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am the worst with hash criticism...I'm already really hard on myself so when someone else gives me any form of crtiq I take it badly and become really hard on myself for not being "perfect" in the first place...Same thing goes for rejection...I just do not want to hear any of it.
2007-03-21 23:20:05 · answer #6 · answered by ~*~eaw~*~ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, I'm still learning. In the past, I've been defensive or I've teared up. But nowadays I've been able to listen to it, absorb it, and then react to it at later time. Its hard......I don't think its easy at all. but its a learning process.
2007-03-21 23:20:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to forget about it.......cover the hurt with an emotional band-aid, and gain some comfidense back.
2007-03-21 23:28:02 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore best you can and remember it's usually about the other persons insecurities. sad people like to bring others down, this is true.
2007-03-22 04:52:35 · answer #9 · answered by lifeoutsidethecircle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A knee to the groin area is usually sufficient.
2007-03-21 23:29:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋