I'm gay and 26 years old. I'm a very strange person, and a lot of people agrees witht that. For my age i'm a very boring person. I do not drink, don't smoke, i have never done any kind of drugs and i don't like going out to clubs. I'm not a very sexual person also. Sex is the greatest thing ever but to me if i don't have a serious partner i don't have to go out to find it. My friends make fun of me when i say that i don't have sex i make love. As stupid as it sounds thats how i feel. Can you believe its been more than 6 months since the last time i had sex. I also love being alone, i really enjoy quiet time. I'm i the only one like that?. Is there something wrong with me?. But keep in mind that i'm a very happy person. I'm very different from other guys my age but i can honestly said that it works for me at least for now. Would i be different after my 30's?
2007-03-21 16:03:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think you sound like an awsome person! Not many people now a days don't sleep around. I completely understand the difference between having sex and making love. I also love being alone, spending time just with myself is so relaxing and rewarding. Everyone and I mean EVERYONE I know thinks I'm weird, and I love it. Normal people just blend in, unique people always get remembered. I love being the weird wacky person I am and I don't think anyone would want me any other way, just as the people that know you probably wouldn't want you any other way either. What is normal anyway? As for changing after you're 30, well that's strickly up to you. Different people in your life will effect your life in different ways, only you can determine what your life will be like. Just remember, different isn't a bad thing! Good luck in everything you do.
2007-03-21 16:15:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
(1) The Vishnu Purana says that the earth is merely one
of thousands of millions of inhabited worlds like
itself to be found in the universe. Since they are
created by the one Alimighty who is infinite, they all
must look similar. This excludes the possibility of
E.T. (extra terrestial beings with fantastic gears)
proposed by some science finction writers.
(2) Many other ancient Indian texts say that many souls
of higher world came down to this earth since a long
time.
(3) My soul has come from such a higher world. I have
some memories of my past birth in that world.
(4) There is a society for persons who say the same
thing:
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Suite 205
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(5) Persons who talk about these things are usually
more emotional to the extent of exagerateing fantacy
and speak less about facts. So, one should be
caucious.
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my side, my Email Id is:
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2007-03-21 16:16:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good 4 you!!! Really!! I think that you are living your life the way that you want to and if you are happy with it then there is NOTHING wrong with that!!! I really wish more of my friends were like you......if you wanna know weird, then you should hang out with some of MY friends!! Sex is just sex unless you have the right person who makes it worth the wait and time it takes to make love and not just get it over with, i mean a quickie now and then is great but if you LOVE someone you want to SHOW them!!! Don't worry about your friends, they are just ignorant and not understanding of your decision to be who you are......DON'T LET THEM BRING YOU DOWN!!! Keep your head up and you will live a happy and healthy life!!!
2007-03-21 16:27:26 · answer #3 · answered by fairyluvr79 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well... I'm 24 and I'm pretty much like you... I don't see any problems with that as long as I'm happy and even being like this I found the person that completes me and I've been happier than ever on these 6 months I've been seeing this person... My behavior like yours didn't stop me from finding the love of my life... on the right time things happen no matter your way of living...
happiness is the key for living... if you are happy this way, just let it be....
=D
2007-03-21 18:40:58 · answer #4 · answered by Hazelnut 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So your different so what it's not a crime!! I'm 20 and I don't smoke or drink either, and who doesn't enjoy quiet sometimes. The only thing I see wrong is you seem to be looking for something to be wrong when really there's nothing there.
2007-03-21 17:00:23 · answer #5 · answered by HoneyBrisk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexuality is on a continuum. Not everyone has the same level of desire or drive for it. If you are not bothered by your level of sex drive, then it is NOT a problem. Don't let 'norms' dictate your life. You sound like a nice, healthy, relationship kind of guy. I think you will find someone wonderfully compatible.
2007-03-21 16:09:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey my friend...I always feel like I am from another planet....even though I am an extrovert and fun and lots of personality for years...but sometimes I feel like I am on another planet with my dreams, goals and ambitions. Like people don't understand what direction I want to take. I don't conform to peoples wishes....so I think you are fine just the way you are :)
2007-03-21 16:58:36 · answer #7 · answered by Gerry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone changes after time takes its toll on them and it natural and no ur not strange...i know plenty of men the same way you are.....just dont try thinkin about if something is wrong with you cause thats just the way you are and its fine.....i think u seem pretty cool and i dont tell many people that so feel special
2007-03-21 18:34:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are perfectly human and living your life. You don't have to conform to anything. You simply have to be happy with yourself. I struggle with that. I think we all do.
2007-03-21 16:12:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
being gay aside....how do you know you arent from another planet, how do we all know we're not? we could all be on another planet right now......
2007-03-21 16:12:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋