Ladies what do women want in a man?

Question

I am so confused. I treated my wife like she deserved to be treated worked full time and kept the house up but she ended up cheated on me with this guy that I thought was my friend. Now they are living in the house I bought her. I usually don't resort to violence but it has been very tempting. I just want to know what women want in a man. This guy treats her like a dog and she would rather be with him. Help me ladies!!!

Answer 1

Most women want a man who will treat her well and respect her just cause your ex prefer to be with someone who has no respect for her and treats her like crap, doesnt mean you need to be like him in your next relationship.

Women wants their men to be them not try and be something they are not. Women like men with ambition and drive .

Dont worry about your ex , cause most of the time our ex's are our ex's for a reason. Move on with your life and remain the gentleman that you are. the right woman will come along and appreciate and love you for who you are

Answer 2

Well if its any consolation, she will regret it. She will wish she had u back at some point if he treats her like crap.
However, U r what we women would consider a good catch. Or from what I can tell anyway.
I hate that she cheated, but dont stereotype us all according to her actions. Not all women cheat. Some women would love a man such as yourself, however, maybe one who has been there and done that with a loser of a man, would be more appreciative of a man like u, unlike your wife who apparently took it for granted.
Dont change who u r for anyone. Be urself, because I personally hate seeing Mr. Hyde 3 months down the road. Just be u from the git go.
Dont be bitter for what has happened, as it will make u a stronger person in the long run. U will appreciate a good woman as well. It will be a perfect union as both of u have been there and done that. Cleche', sorry.
So, Good luck and best wishes for a much brighter future.
Oh, and lose the temptation to resort to violence. I know u would probably feel better, but u would be stooping to a level far lower than what u truly are. Stay right where u r, and revel in the fact that she will regret it all someday. But, by then, it will be too late, because u will have found the RIGHT woman for u.
Ok, done now....lol
Good luck to u bud. I feel for ya, been there and done that.

Answer 3

What do women want in a man? you sound like you think you gave her what you thought she might want...was she ever concerned or wanted to know what you wanted? Clearly a woman raised to believe that all women are deserving and feel the need to control the ones "they love"

You should be glad to be rid of her and know that she is being treated like a dog...possibly how you were treated...

Women want a man that loves, that lusts, that communicates, that truly treat them as equals, that have a sense of humor, that take care of themselves and understands that a person earns respect and trust and has to work to keep it.

These are qualities that I have found in a man and cherish and treasure every moment I have with him

There is someone out there for you...you will hear this for a long time and when YOU find that one you will know and you will never let go and wonder "where have you been all my life?"

Answer 4

This a a case of " nice guys finish last". Now don't go feeling bad because you just havent found a woman who will appreciate you for you. Get comfortable with the fact that you were the best person you could be with her. Don't keep rethinking it, you have to realize YOUR OWN WORTH! Having been in my relationship with my b/f for 8 years, he's a bad boy type, it isn't always easy. Most women just want peace of mind and security. Along with a little adventure. Peace of mind because you can TRUST that person and security knowing that everything will be alright because you have each other when it comes to the household, the bills and the emotional support. Hope this helps.

Answer 5

Women want a man to make her feel good, keep her in love, keep her happy, eg. flowers once in a while just because, lots of hugs and kisses, saying I love you, paying attension to her telling her she is the most beautiful woman, being her best friend, listening, talking, no jelousy, patience, no anger, talk to her nicely, no posessiveness. don't treat her like an object, compromize, do what she want sometimes. obey her, give her space, go out with her, to even the club to dance, fancy resturants sometimes, dress up together and go out on a date. Men also need this and women too should know. We all want that ultimate partner but things happen from past experiences and people grow up a certain way and thats who they are. Finding your soul mate is hard and I feel it is rear. Just being honest, caring, compasionate and selfless is the real deal!!

Answer 6

i % women human beings via their resistance to extremism. If she's balanced in all issues like my parents, she's eye-catching. If she's bodily in a position sufficient to hold a 30 to 50 lb backpack and probable stay on the Appalachian path interior the winter for 3 days with me, she's surely eye-catching. A extra or less geared up female who isn't interested in extremism in any admire is eye-catching. i admire stability and tranquility. If she desires it to be a distinctive adventure every day, or pay lack to emotion, or something under gentle stability, then she's not eye-catching. of direction, i'm unsure if there are the different men like me, so which you're getting a different description of an suited female right here. actual wellness is paramount. Hmm. I purely examine the different solutions on right here. i assume i'm the a million out of 10 or extra style of guy. wish the define is a help.

Answer 7

like the other answer said you must have been too good for her. what i want in a man? a man who is honest, loyal, not a doormat, someone who loves him mom (sounds crazy, but if a man treats his mama right, he most likely will treat you good) must love animals and kids and be have a good sense of humor. I don't care if he is rich or middle class, what kind of car he drives or what kind of house he has. I am sorry that you had to go through that. you seem like a good man and you deserve so much better.

Answer 8

My only question is did you attend to her emotional and physical needs? I know that is not an excuse to cheat ever but unappreciative people use that as an excuse to justify cheating. She has some emotional problems that she has not dealt with as to why she could not be with you and why she is with this loser. I know that when want a man a I want an honest, sober, straight, sweet loving hardworking man that loves and care about me and for me and he should want the same.
Sorry your ex is a total loser ***** and she deserves what he dishes out her and you need to heal and then get a real woman. God bless.

Answer 9

You were being TOO nice! (I know, it sounds stupid) She knew that she could walk all over you and get away with it. Before I answer your question, why did you do the housework and work?! Why did you let her have the house?! Anyways...
I could answer your question, but I don't think it would really help you. How long were you married? DID you guys fight often? Was the sex good? There are soooo many things needed to make a marriage work, it doesn't matter how nice you are to each other. You have to think of the little things, like for example...do you spend your time doing things that annoyed her, like playing a game, or watching a lot of sports? It sounds to me like youguys prob. lost your flame. Or, maybe she was just a complete b*tch. Anyways....
I like:
courtesy
cuddling
sense of humor
excitement
good-looking
"manly"
caring, listens
I know it sounds crazy, but I want a man, that I know won't let me control him!

Answer 10

hi, i am so sorry to hear what happened to you, maybe she is just a dog and maybe you should be glad that now you see the real woman and are rid of her for good! whatever you do, please don't resort to violence because then you will be in jail or on death row and they will either be dead and not suffering for teh wickedness they've done to you, or happily enjoying life somewhere without ever having to worry about you again.

having said that my husband is an excellent provider and treats me extremely lovingly, but somehow he is not there for me emotionally in the majority of times that i need him to be there. maybe that is what happened with your relationship. maybe you were so busy working and doing stuff around the house you forgot to just spend simple but quality time with your ex-wife. anyway, i never want to cheat on my husband, i couldn;t live wiht myself if i did that to him after all he has done for me!

there are many ladies out there tho' who are not as spoiled as myself and would be tremendously happy to just have a man who works to support his familyand is basically just a good caring man. many women are content with that. the main thing is to always communicate with her and see how she is doing emotionally,spiritually, physically, often. make sure you two are on the same page. things can get out of hand quickly if you don't maintain a good stream of communication.

also i find it is very common these days for spouses to cheat with the other spouse's so called friends.. to be honest i am so wary of this that i keep my 'girlfriends ' to a minimum and AWAY from my spouse! i try not to 'invite' peril into my relationship. but talk to your next woman, make sure she understands and respects how you feel about fidelity and honelty and trust. you can't control people or manipulate them forever. just be the good man that you are and pray to God that he blesses you with a good woman in return! you will recover from this. go out and date and move on and try not to think about this episode in your life!

i am very sorry you had to go thru this ordeal! it truly sounds unfair to you, doing all the hard work and then she cheats! i will pray that you heal quickly from this and find a much better woman to make your new wife, who treats you with respect and love!

PS... i don't think the answer to your questions is to start treating women in general badly. this would make you no better than your ex. treating others badly for no reason is no answer. if you want to talk more feel free to contact me.