well first off i'm a junior and she's a senior. i'm bi. i think she is straight b/c of her religion which is catholic but she keeps on touching me. i like this girl alot. but i don't want to ruin our relationship. i want to tell her how i feel. i give her hints like i'm into rainbows. so i am so confused. can u plz help me on how i should approach her and tell her that i'm bi and i like her?
2007-03-21 15:52:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
well first off i'm a junior and she's a senior. i'm bi. i think she is straight b/c of her religion which is catholic but she keeps on touching me. i like this girl alot. but i don't want to ruin our friendship. i want to tell her how i feel. i give her hints like i'm into rainbows. so i am so confused. can u plz help me on how i should approach her and tell her that i'm bi and i like her?
2007-03-21 16:11:55 · update #1
i'm into rainbows too so is there a chance i can get in on the action
2007-03-21 15:58:02 · answer #1 · answered by zellparis 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just tell her that you are bi and that you feel the need to keep it a secret because of the social taboos and you want her opinion about it. Let her be the support you will want. If she seems okay with the idea ask her, if you'd said that you like her as something more than a friend, how would she react? If she seems shocked or awed by the idea, instantly soothe her saying that you just wanted to know about her own opinion on such things and do not intend to offend her by making or thinking up such an offer and let it go. Otherwise, she will surely pick up this very clear hint and things can progress from then on.
2007-03-21 15:59:22 · answer #2 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's your best friend, be honest with her about your sexuality. If she hates you for it, then I guess she wasn't that good of a friend. If she doesn't freak out about it, then maybe mention that you'd like to take your relationship to the next level. Maybe give her a little while to process the first part before telling her that you're interested in her though.
2007-03-21 16:04:38 · answer #3 · answered by carora13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My advice to you is to just ask her but in a different way......not just right out, what you could do is say, so a friend/family member of mine invited me over to his/her house for this party and i want to go but i want your opinion......then say would you go if u knew it was a party with alot of gay and lesbians there.........then see how she responds.....you will know if she is or isnt that way, or you could even try to just bring up the subject casually one day just say hey whats ur opinion on.......and so on you'll get it, if she is interested just tell her how you feel, you will know if she wants to or not!!! Good luck!!!
2007-03-21 16:03:23 · answer #4 · answered by fairyluvr79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just tell her straight. she's your best friend and ought to know the honest truth. take note that she may not take it very well but it's better than you keep dropping hints and don't get any answers from her.
2007-03-22 00:43:18 · answer #5 · answered by pee_bag 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her and tell her. If you're as good of friends as you say that you are, you'll get through it. Believe me, I've been there. :)
2007-03-21 16:36:12 · answer #6 · answered by jkregger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will you marry me?
2007-03-21 16:07:14 · answer #7 · answered by USAF, Retired 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋